Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Women in mid 30s are plenty attractive. I just don't want kids for about 5 years and I don't want to date anybody older than meExperience is exactly what you need. You're saying that it's nearly impossible for you to get a 26 year old out on a date. Sounds like you have virtually no experience getting women that you desire. Lay off for 10 years and you're going to be in exactly the same position you're in now, but even worse because you'll be a 39 year old with no experience - basically a social freak.
You say you can get 30 year old women now but you don't want them. But in 10 years you plan on getting women in their mid 30s. What makes you think that you will suddenly start finding 30 year olds attractive? What men find attractive doesn't change that much with age.
This is the biggest load of BS, and the flimsiest excuse I have ever seen on this forum.
Hahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.I'm starting to think someone is paying bigdave and the frog guu to post troll threads and keep sosuave interesting.
No they aren’t. Women at 35 know what they want. Women at 27 don’t have a clue.women are much more sane at 35 than 27
Says who?!yea but women are much more sane at 35 than 27
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I’m talking about Richard The Frog guyHahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.![]()
holy moly do I need to repeat this a 1000 times??
I'm good looking for everyday standards, say top 10% of society. Women on dating sites aren't looking for top 1%, they're looking for top 0.0000000000000001%
says common senseSays who?!