"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I fly to SFO to meeet HOT chic?

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Bangkok is foriegn territory to me. But seriously, it's on YOU man, if you wanna do it, DO IT, just remember what we told ya.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm NOT going man

So you want me to hook you up or not??

She's ignoring me on chat right now.

But I'll be like hey I got this friend in San Fran.. then you two can chat and see if she likes you. She'll want some pics. And I think she wants a white dude are you white?
 

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Issan is the poorest part of Thailand. It's very very common for families in Issan to send their daughters to Bangkok to prostitution, so they can send money back home. Besides, they usually don't have any education besides primary school, and are generally looked down upon by other Thais.

ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
Issan is the poorest part of Thailand. It's very very common for families in Issan to send their daughters to Bangkok to prostitution, so they can send money back home. Besides, they usually don't have any education besides primary school, and are generally looked down upon by other Thais.

ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
honestly I don't think she's a ho

She lives IN bangcok from what she has told me, and she goes to school and everything...

So Create you want it or not? I'm never gonna meet the b!tch and she heads back home in a month .. take it or leave it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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24 how old are u?

go back and look at those pics tell me u dont want it lol
 

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What are you, her PIMP? ;) I don't got MSN Messenger but I do got AIM.
 

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just trying to hook a brother up since your already next door... Maybe good karma will come my way if I hook u up :) I don't get sh!t out of this except jealousy if you hit it lol

guess you don't want it then.
 

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well she's ignoring me on MSN giving me the silent treatment

If I was in your shoes I'd take up the offer.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay how much for her screenname? Paypal, or shall we Money Order?
 

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i just texted her I have a friend in san fran and asked her if she wants to chat with him... let's see if she says anything.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Okay how much for her screenname? Paypal, or shall we Money Order?

well sheeyat i was gonna do it for free but since u offered.. nah man i dont want your money.

how old are u man
 

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its funny once I mention currency we get anywhere. no offense intended.
 

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I am old enough, yet young enough. (that was too long to put in the AGE field)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Create Reality
its funny once I mention currency we get anywhere. no offense intended.
I just told u I dont want your damn money... Just tell me how ****ing old you are.. she doesnt want an older guy.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
She'll have to find out for herself

alright I got her chatting ... she asking me wierd **** like how much do I like her... let's see where this goes.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
alright I got her chatting ... she asking me wierd **** like how much do I like her... let's see where this goes.
Good luck, but don't fall into the LDR trap, it sucks, I know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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