"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I fly to SFO to meeet HOT chic?

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Bangkok is foriegn territory to me. But seriously, it's on YOU man, if you wanna do it, DO IT, just remember what we told ya.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm NOT going man

So you want me to hook you up or not??

She's ignoring me on chat right now.

But I'll be like hey I got this friend in San Fran.. then you two can chat and see if she likes you. She'll want some pics. And I think she wants a white dude are you white?
 

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Issan is the poorest part of Thailand. It's very very common for families in Issan to send their daughters to Bangkok to prostitution, so they can send money back home. Besides, they usually don't have any education besides primary school, and are generally looked down upon by other Thais.

ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
Issan is the poorest part of Thailand. It's very very common for families in Issan to send their daughters to Bangkok to prostitution, so they can send money back home. Besides, they usually don't have any education besides primary school, and are generally looked down upon by other Thais.

ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
honestly I don't think she's a ho

She lives IN bangcok from what she has told me, and she goes to school and everything...

So Create you want it or not? I'm never gonna meet the b!tch and she heads back home in a month .. take it or leave it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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24 how old are u?

go back and look at those pics tell me u dont want it lol
 

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What are you, her PIMP? ;) I don't got MSN Messenger but I do got AIM.
 

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just trying to hook a brother up since your already next door... Maybe good karma will come my way if I hook u up :) I don't get sh!t out of this except jealousy if you hit it lol

guess you don't want it then.
 

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well she's ignoring me on MSN giving me the silent treatment

If I was in your shoes I'd take up the offer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Okay how much for her screenname? Paypal, or shall we Money Order?
 

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i just texted her I have a friend in san fran and asked her if she wants to chat with him... let's see if she says anything.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Okay how much for her screenname? Paypal, or shall we Money Order?

well sheeyat i was gonna do it for free but since u offered.. nah man i dont want your money.

how old are u man
 

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its funny once I mention currency we get anywhere. no offense intended.
 

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I am old enough, yet young enough. (that was too long to put in the AGE field)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Create Reality
its funny once I mention currency we get anywhere. no offense intended.
I just told u I dont want your damn money... Just tell me how ****ing old you are.. she doesnt want an older guy.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
She'll have to find out for herself

alright I got her chatting ... she asking me wierd **** like how much do I like her... let's see where this goes.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
alright I got her chatting ... she asking me wierd **** like how much do I like her... let's see where this goes.
Good luck, but don't fall into the LDR trap, it sucks, I know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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