"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I fly to SFO to meeet HOT chic?

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Bangkok is foriegn territory to me. But seriously, it's on YOU man, if you wanna do it, DO IT, just remember what we told ya.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm NOT going man

So you want me to hook you up or not??

She's ignoring me on chat right now.

But I'll be like hey I got this friend in San Fran.. then you two can chat and see if she likes you. She'll want some pics. And I think she wants a white dude are you white?
 

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Issan is the poorest part of Thailand. It's very very common for families in Issan to send their daughters to Bangkok to prostitution, so they can send money back home. Besides, they usually don't have any education besides primary school, and are generally looked down upon by other Thais.

ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
Issan is the poorest part of Thailand. It's very very common for families in Issan to send their daughters to Bangkok to prostitution, so they can send money back home. Besides, they usually don't have any education besides primary school, and are generally looked down upon by other Thais.

ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
honestly I don't think she's a ho

She lives IN bangcok from what she has told me, and she goes to school and everything...

So Create you want it or not? I'm never gonna meet the b!tch and she heads back home in a month .. take it or leave it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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24 how old are u?

go back and look at those pics tell me u dont want it lol
 

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What are you, her PIMP? ;) I don't got MSN Messenger but I do got AIM.
 

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just trying to hook a brother up since your already next door... Maybe good karma will come my way if I hook u up :) I don't get sh!t out of this except jealousy if you hit it lol

guess you don't want it then.
 

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well she's ignoring me on MSN giving me the silent treatment

If I was in your shoes I'd take up the offer.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay how much for her screenname? Paypal, or shall we Money Order?
 

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i just texted her I have a friend in san fran and asked her if she wants to chat with him... let's see if she says anything.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Okay how much for her screenname? Paypal, or shall we Money Order?

well sheeyat i was gonna do it for free but since u offered.. nah man i dont want your money.

how old are u man
 

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its funny once I mention currency we get anywhere. no offense intended.
 

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I am old enough, yet young enough. (that was too long to put in the AGE field)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Create Reality
its funny once I mention currency we get anywhere. no offense intended.
I just told u I dont want your damn money... Just tell me how ****ing old you are.. she doesnt want an older guy.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
She'll have to find out for herself

alright I got her chatting ... she asking me wierd **** like how much do I like her... let's see where this goes.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
alright I got her chatting ... she asking me wierd **** like how much do I like her... let's see where this goes.
Good luck, but don't fall into the LDR trap, it sucks, I know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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