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Bangkok is foriegn territory to me. But seriously, it's on YOU man, if you wanna do it, DO IT, just remember what we told ya.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Should I fly to SFO to meeet HOT chic?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I'm NOT going man
So you want me to hook you up or not??
She's ignoring me on chat right now.
But I'll be like hey I got this friend in San Fran.. then you two can chat and see if she likes you. She'll want some pics. And I think she wants a white dude are you white?
So you want me to hook you up or not??
She's ignoring me on chat right now.
But I'll be like hey I got this friend in San Fran.. then you two can chat and see if she likes you. She'll want some pics. And I think she wants a white dude are you white?
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Master Don Juan
Issan is the poorest part of Thailand. It's very very common for families in Issan to send their daughters to Bangkok to prostitution, so they can send money back home. Besides, they usually don't have any education besides primary school, and are generally looked down upon by other Thais.
ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
ps. it's an insult to tell a Thai that they're from Issan.
Immaculate
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honestly I don't think she's a ho
She lives IN bangcok from what she has told me, and she goes to school and everything...
So Create you want it or not? I'm never gonna meet the b!tch and she heads back home in a month .. take it or leave it
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How old is she?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Immaculate
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24 how old are u?
go back and look at those pics tell me u dont want it lol
go back and look at those pics tell me u dont want it lol
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What are you, her PIMP? 
I don't got MSN Messenger but I do got AIM.
I don't got MSN Messenger but I do got AIM.Immaculate
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just trying to hook a brother up since your already next door... Maybe good karma will come my way if I hook u up I don't get sh!t out of this except jealousy if you hit it lol
guess you don't want it then.
I don't get sh!t out of this except jealousy if you hit it lolguess you don't want it then.
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But you make it sound so good.
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well she's ignoring me on MSN giving me the silent treatment
If I was in your shoes I'd take up the offer.
If I was in your shoes I'd take up the offer.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Okay how much for her screenname? Paypal, or shall we Money Order?
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i just texted her I have a friend in san fran and asked her if she wants to chat with him... let's see if she says anything.
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well sheeyat i was gonna do it for free but since u offered.. nah man i dont want your money.
how old are u man
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its funny once I mention currency we get anywhere. no offense intended.
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I am old enough, yet young enough. (that was too long to put in the AGE field)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I just told u I dont want your damn money... Just tell me how ****ing old you are.. she doesnt want an older guy.
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She'll have to find out for herself
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alright I got her chatting ... she asking me wierd **** like how much do I like her... let's see where this goes.
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I just f'ing with her
I told her I would marry her LOL
I told her I would marry her LOL
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Good luck, but don't fall into the LDR trap, it sucks, I know.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.