She tells you shes a challenge...

[PeterCrouch]

How do you respond?

 

[Bvbidd]

Start crying and then throw things at her.

Why ask something like that?

 

[poohead]

i think if she's so narcissistic/egotistical that she would come out and just say this to someone, even jokingly, she's probably not worth your time.

 

[brucevangeorge]

How do you respond?

I tell her to change the oil in my car.

 

[disfunktional]

I had a woman tell me this, she turned out to be an attention wh0re.

 

[CompleteControl]

She may be cool. You may have expressed too high a level of interest before she was feeling enough attraction to you.

It is just a test. She says "she is challenge" translates to:

"If you are an AFC don't bother because you are just going to bug me all the time until I have to break your heart".

How do you respond?

In a humorous tone:

"Are you really that much of a pain in the ass to get to know better (pause but don't let her answer) cause if you are - I am a busy guy and this isn't going to work out." (pause but don't let her answer)

inquisitive and sort of confused/serious:

"or are you feeling that you really want us to get to know each other but you are a little nervous to just let this happen?"

 

[Bvbidd]

She may be cool. You may have expressed too high a level of interest before she was feeling enough attraction to you.

It is just a test. She says "she is challenge" translates to:

"If you are an AFC don't bother because you are just going to bug me all the time until I have to break your heart".



In a humorous tone:

"Are you really that much of a pain in the ass to get to know better (pause but don't let her answer) cause if you are - I am a busy guy and this isn't going to work out." (pause but don't let her answer)

inquisitive and sort of confused/serious:

"or are you feeling that you really want us to get to know each other but you are a little nervous to just let this happen?"

:yawn: Yeah.. I'm sure she's just checking if your an AFC.

She's not thinking in her head if your a ****ing AFC or DJ or not.. stop getting brain-washed by this place.. thinking women have read all this. None have. Checking if you have confidence.. yeah she may do THAT.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

"That's what you all say. Most times women say this when they are just difficult to get along with. Are you one of those women?"

 

[Jackman]

You respond with, " So am I."

 

[CompleteControl]

:yawn: Yeah.. I'm sure she's just checking if your an AFC.

She's not thinking in her head if your a ****ing AFC or DJ or not.

Of course she isn't literally checking to see if you are an AFC or DJ. This was shorthand. (see below for explanation)

. stop getting brain-washed by this place..thinking women have read all this. None have.

I am not brainwashed - I haven't even read 1% of the stuff on this site. I have actual real life experience with real women.

Checking if you have confidence.. yeah she may do THAT.

Beautiful young women constantly have men hitting on them and asking them out. Many men (I called them AFC for short) call them constantly, buy them flowers, drinks, dinner and are always available to and desperately want to spend time with them. These men fail to realize that this behavior has caused her to lose any attraction that there may have been in the first place. The girl is then left in the unenviable position of having to hurt them by telling them she is not interested or blowing them off until they get the hint. She wants to avoid this because it makes her feel bad. With many highly desirable women this has happened over and over and over and she hates it..

Yes, she is checking to see if you have confidence. She is checking to make sure that you are a confident man, that has a life and who she can have a good time with; and not a man who is going to be a needy puppy dog that she has to hurt later.

 

[CompleteControl]

You respond with, " So am I."

Great answer! :cheer:

 

[flippinfreak]

Come ON!!!!!

"Oh, your going to have to prove it"

continue doing whatever it was you were doing when she interrupted you.

 

[Jackman]

"Oh, your going to have to prove it"

continue doing whatever it was you were doing when she interrupted you.

...she then walks away to prove she's a challenge, leaving you to do whatever it is you're doing.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You respond with, " So am I."

Like it.

 

[flippinfreak]

...she then walks away to prove she's a challenge, leaving you to do whatever it is you're doing.

Yes, she does go off top prove how much of a challenge she is to me. While I stay right where I am, not chasing her and putting her up on a pedestal.

10, 15 minutes later, I hit her back and sit down with all of her friends and tease her while warming up her friends with a few ice breakers...

She looks at me with a challenge, and I accept...

Yeah, she's a challenge alright, and I'm not going to back down...

No need to bust down a girls confidence straight up... I don't play with little girls Jackman

 

[Jackman]

Sosuave AFCs are too scared to give me bad rep points

Check your rating....

I don't think you have any actual experience.

 

[flippinfreak]

Check your rating....

I don't think you have any actual experience.

LOL, doesn't do anything if you have your reputation disabled

 

[Jackman]

Thanks for paying much attention to the rating rules and teaching me. I fixed it. Do you have negative points now?

 

[flippinfreak]

Thanks for paying much attention to the rating rules and teaching me. I fixed it. Do you have negative points now?

Nah, "you must spread some reputation around before" anything happens... You can't give it to the same post twice neither...

Glad to see your only like person number four who has actually done something about that quote...

Check your nows

 

[Jackman]

Cool. I got one more "point".