Huh bro. Can you explain this in different terms. It seems interesting I am just kinda slow and not catching your main point.
I do agree that the innocence does end in the bedroom for sure. They are often not virgins because of some moral characteristic. They are virgins because of a lack of opportunity and being sheltered. In the end it doesn't matter to me because as long as I am the first guy I can mold her to atleast be submissive for a few years in order to raise my kid. Then she will be free to leave ( and she will).
Usually the lack of opportunity is due to societal pressure (slvt shaming, familial pressure, religion, etc.) and yes, being sheltered/uneducated. There are countries where women who have premarital sex are not only shunned but sometimes killed - by their own fathers, even.
I'm not trying to make this about "patriarchy" or whatever. It is what it is. A great deal of sexual suppression against females is due to male hamster spinning about female sexuality, because most men don't get it. Even in the RP, guys will choose which "brutal" truths (they're not brutal if you can handle it) to endorse, and rationalize away the rest. Female sexuality is a powerful force of nature, especially at a young age, and a lot of guys can't handle that or just don't want to see it.
That said, there is plenty of research that shows that partners with lower notch counts have longer lasting
marriages. Can't deny that. Is it because of lack of notches? Could be. One thing to consider is that a woman who might get married young and pure may be more likely to stick out a marriage, even a bad one.
With a guy like you - high value, knows how to handle women - chances are high she'll stick by your side. This is true even if she's not a virgin. I think it has more to do with you than her - but every man should screen for his best interests.