"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
shaun's training log
- Thread starter shaunuk
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Upper
Incline barbell bench, Worked up to a 3RM, 37.5kgx3 max
Dips, -20lbsx8, -20lbsx8, -20lbsx8
Barbell military press, 25kgx6, 25kgx6, 25kgx6
Dumbbell situps, 3x8
I thought I'd have been able to get more weight on the incline barbell press, but I guess it's normal that your incline bench is below your flat bench..
-shaun
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Upper
Paused barbell bench, 35kgx5, 35kgx5, 35kgx5
Incline DB press, 15kgx7, 15kgx7, 15kgx7
I was sposed to be doing shoulder presses and tricep pushdowns as well but my bro picked me up from the gym and couldn't wait.
-shaun
spesmilitis
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=117452
on my routine, EFFORT wrote GHRs 3xfailure. I would've been able to get more usually, but my glutes and hams still weren't fully recovered from monday's box squats (bad, I know). I should probably let effort know about that
-sbaun
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I'm listening to Prince.