"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sending pictures of your genitals to a woman

SeymourCake

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What are your takes on this? I've never sent pics of my genitals to someone local, but I did send them to those who are far away.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Juan Don

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f that noise. better to show in person. you never know who is on the receiving end of those pics. lol
 

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A dikture can go a long way...
 

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It works 60% of the time, all the time
 

Leporello

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Male junk just isn't aesthetically pleasing. Best not send it unless she asks for it directly.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aaron B

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Leporello said:
Male junk just isn't aesthetically pleasing. Best not send it unless she asks for it directly.
let's be honest, neither is female junk

i still wanna see it tho

i suspect women feel the same about ours
 

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Aaron B said:
let's be honest, neither is female junk

i still wanna see it tho

i suspect women feel the same about ours
Yeah I hate how vag's look.

But still. Women's bodies....they're just genetically designed by nature to look good naked.

Us guys are just designed to carry stuff and fight and f**k. Which is also awesome in its own way.
 

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dangerous. a really good freind of mine from college is a total man eater. she gets guys to send **** pictures and then she stores them like a collection.

she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.

of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
 

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Creepy. I would ask the moderators to close this thread.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been on the internet a long time.

Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.

Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.

I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.

At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.

Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.
 
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