"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sending pictures of your genitals to a woman

SeymourCake

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What are your takes on this? I've never sent pics of my genitals to someone local, but I did send them to those who are far away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Juan Don

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f that noise. better to show in person. you never know who is on the receiving end of those pics. lol
 

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A dikture can go a long way...
 

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It works 60% of the time, all the time
 

Leporello

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Male junk just isn't aesthetically pleasing. Best not send it unless she asks for it directly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Leporello said:
Male junk just isn't aesthetically pleasing. Best not send it unless she asks for it directly.
let's be honest, neither is female junk

i still wanna see it tho

i suspect women feel the same about ours
 

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Aaron B said:
let's be honest, neither is female junk

i still wanna see it tho

i suspect women feel the same about ours
Yeah I hate how vag's look.

But still. Women's bodies....they're just genetically designed by nature to look good naked.

Us guys are just designed to carry stuff and fight and f**k. Which is also awesome in its own way.
 

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dangerous. a really good freind of mine from college is a total man eater. she gets guys to send **** pictures and then she stores them like a collection.

she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.

of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
 

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Creepy. I would ask the moderators to close this thread.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been on the internet a long time.

Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.

Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.

I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.

At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.

Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.
 
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