SeymourCake
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What are your takes on this? I've never sent pics of my genitals to someone local, but I did send them to those who are far away.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sending pictures of your genitals to a woman
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
It works 60% of the time, all the time
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Yeah I hate how vag's look.Aaron B said:
But still. Women's bodies....they're just genetically designed by nature to look good naked.
Us guys are just designed to carry stuff and fight and f**k. Which is also awesome in its own way.
dangerous. a really good freind of mine from college is a total man eater. she gets guys to send **** pictures and then she stores them like a collection.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I've been on the internet a long time.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.