SeymourCake
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What are your takes on this? I've never sent pics of my genitals to someone local, but I did send them to those who are far away.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sending pictures of your genitals to a woman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
It works 60% of the time, all the time
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Yeah I hate how vag's look.Aaron B said:
But still. Women's bodies....they're just genetically designed by nature to look good naked.
Us guys are just designed to carry stuff and fight and f**k. Which is also awesome in its own way.
dangerous. a really good freind of mine from college is a total man eater. she gets guys to send **** pictures and then she stores them like a collection.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I've been on the internet a long time.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.