"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sending pictures of your genitals to a woman

SeymourCake

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What are your takes on this? I've never sent pics of my genitals to someone local, but I did send them to those who are far away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Juan Don

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f that noise. better to show in person. you never know who is on the receiving end of those pics. lol
 

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A dikture can go a long way...
 

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It works 60% of the time, all the time
 

Leporello

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Male junk just isn't aesthetically pleasing. Best not send it unless she asks for it directly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aaron B

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Leporello said:
Male junk just isn't aesthetically pleasing. Best not send it unless she asks for it directly.
let's be honest, neither is female junk

i still wanna see it tho

i suspect women feel the same about ours
 

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Aaron B said:
let's be honest, neither is female junk

i still wanna see it tho

i suspect women feel the same about ours
Yeah I hate how vag's look.

But still. Women's bodies....they're just genetically designed by nature to look good naked.

Us guys are just designed to carry stuff and fight and f**k. Which is also awesome in its own way.
 

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dangerous. a really good freind of mine from college is a total man eater. she gets guys to send **** pictures and then she stores them like a collection.

she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.

of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
 

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Creepy. I would ask the moderators to close this thread.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been on the internet a long time.

Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.

Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.

I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.

At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.

Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.
 
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