SeymourCake
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What are your takes on this? I've never sent pics of my genitals to someone local, but I did send them to those who are far away.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sending pictures of your genitals to a woman
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Master Don Juan
It works 60% of the time, all the time
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Master Don Juan
Yeah I hate how vag's look.Aaron B said:
But still. Women's bodies....they're just genetically designed by nature to look good naked.
Us guys are just designed to carry stuff and fight and f**k. Which is also awesome in its own way.
dangerous. a really good freind of mine from college is a total man eater. she gets guys to send **** pictures and then she stores them like a collection.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I've been on the internet a long time.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.