SeymourCake
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What are your takes on this? I've never sent pics of my genitals to someone local, but I did send them to those who are far away.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sending pictures of your genitals to a woman
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
It works 60% of the time, all the time
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Yeah I hate how vag's look.Aaron B said:
But still. Women's bodies....they're just genetically designed by nature to look good naked.
Us guys are just designed to carry stuff and fight and f**k. Which is also awesome in its own way.
dangerous. a really good freind of mine from college is a total man eater. she gets guys to send **** pictures and then she stores them like a collection.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
she'll do a little sexting, get you to send a picture and then never talk to you again.
of course this is probably an outlier, but im just saying.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I've been on the internet a long time.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.
Dont send your own. You have no idea who is on the receiving or what they're going to do with it if you break up.
Dont send not your own. They'll know you're lying.
I dont date over the internet in a publicly accessible way. Do it using a social network. If you join adult friend finder, you wouldnt want the "wrong person" to find you on there, trust me, hilarious will ensue. I joined AFF as a paying member just to see how many idiots I know in real life might actually be on there. Found a lady that went to my church... what has been seen... cant be unseen.
At least on Facebook you can limit access, send private messages, and creep/stalk without being out of the ordinary. You can also prevent them from posting on your wall, seeing your friends, and block them if things get real bad.
Once they have your n00ds, you're at their mercy.