Yookiwooki
Don Juan
Using sarcasm is bad. No matter how funny it is, it will get you nowhere; its just too negative.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sarcasm
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Midnight Carnival
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Weird, I find it cute when girls do it.
oakraiderz2
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Um...no its not.Yookiwooki said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJ_Matthew
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Sarcasm is magic when used right.
Of course, you can't overdo just like any other technique.
Of course, you can't overdo just like any other technique.
Sarcasm is bad? No way. It has done wonders for my "game." If you know how to use it properly. And know when to turn it off. I've made alot of women blush and bust up laughing with my sarcasm. In fact, most have told me. They were attracted to my sense of humor.
The key is not to be too mean. And not to do it all the time. Just tease a little.
The key is not to be too mean. And not to do it all the time. Just tease a little.
Yookiwooki
Don Juan
but even if its really funny and they laugh their asses off, its still gives them the impression that your a cynical person
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thats not possible; if you make them laugh and they think youre funny, it would be a contrdictory thought to see you as cynical. You probably said something sarcastic with a negative attitude and didnt pull it off right. You my sir, your wrong.Yookiwooki said:
GloriouslyInsane
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I once got the "You don't even know me! You're lucky im a person that doesn't get offended easily!"
I replied with "I already knew that"
She said "How did you know?"
"Because you were laughing all the time"
She said "You are right"
So there goes, if she laughs continue
If she doesn't next her.I humour so i can laugh and have fun,so if she doesn't like it i drop her asap.
I replied with "I already knew that"
She said "How did you know?"
"Because you were laughing all the time"
She said "You are right"
So there goes, if she laughs continue
If she doesn't next her.I humour so i can laugh and have fun,so if she doesn't like it i drop her asap."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MightyMate
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That is not true. Maybe You used it wrong.
meitenesrigas
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Sarcasm is unheard of in many cultures. I come from a background like most of you, but when I left I had to quit using it. I love the fact that girls don't use it where I am at. I would advise you to get really pissed if a girl uses it with you. Dump her would be an even better suggestion. It has taken me many thousands of miles to realize just how defeating it is.
Midnight Carnival
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Why the hell would you do that... :/meitenesrigas said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dynamicallyidle
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Depends on the type of woman. That some of you don't realize that women respond completely differently to different personalities betrays your lack of mastery of them.
Just Another Guy....
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It's all about her. Sarcasm goes right over some people...