Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sarcasm

Yookiwooki

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Using sarcasm is bad. No matter how funny it is, it will get you nowhere; its just too negative.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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Yookiwooki said:
Using sarcasm is bad. No matter how funny it is, it will get you nowhere; its just too negative.
Um...no its not.
 

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yeah, this tip was REALLY useful.:rolleyes:
 

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do it with a smile at the right time and she'll either smile or burst out laughing... "sarcasm is bad..." ha........ha..... ha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ_Matthew

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Sarcasm is magic when used right.

Of course, you can't overdo just like any other technique.
 

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Sarcasm is bad? No way. It has done wonders for my "game." If you know how to use it properly. And know when to turn it off. I've made alot of women blush and bust up laughing with my sarcasm. In fact, most have told me. They were attracted to my sense of humor.

The key is not to be too mean. And not to do it all the time. Just tease a little.
 

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but even if its really funny and they laugh their asses off, its still gives them the impression that your a cynical person
 

oakraiderz2

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Yookiwooki said:
but even if its really funny and they laugh their asses off, its still gives them the impression that your a cynical person
Thats not possible; if you make them laugh and they think youre funny, it would be a contrdictory thought to see you as cynical. You probably said something sarcastic with a negative attitude and didnt pull it off right. You my sir, your wrong.
 

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I once got the "You don't even know me! You're lucky im a person that doesn't get offended easily!"

I replied with "I already knew that"

She said "How did you know?"

"Because you were laughing all the time"

She said "You are right"

So there goes, if she laughs continue :p If she doesn't next her.I humour so i can laugh and have fun,so if she doesn't like it i drop her asap.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sarcasm is unheard of in many cultures. I come from a background like most of you, but when I left I had to quit using it. I love the fact that girls don't use it where I am at. I would advise you to get really pissed if a girl uses it with you. Dump her would be an even better suggestion. It has taken me many thousands of miles to realize just how defeating it is.
 

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Sarcasm and a dry sense of humor, in a playful, teasing way, mixed in with sincerity, pushes all those buttons.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Depends on the type of woman. That some of you don't realize that women respond completely differently to different personalities betrays your lack of mastery of them.
 

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Don't over do it might be what should of been said. It's not like doing something ONCE will get you tagged as retard.
 
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