"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
doctoroxygen
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DrMetallica
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
AC/DC
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Go to SF's "Hooters"!
rgeere
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Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.Originally posted by Celadus
Anyone know the San Francisco bay area? Any suggestions on where to go to meet straight people 18 to about 22?
The_Mole
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i havent been with a girl in 2 years and i'm planning to stay like this
Derek Flint
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Obviously, your post is based on ignorance.Originally posted by rgeere
Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.
My bet is that you've never spent any amount of time in SF or the Bay Area, and that your opinion is based on some media stereotype.
SF is a great place to meet single women and there are plenty of them.
If you're 21, check out the "Triangle" so named for the 3 bars/taverns that occupy 3 of the 4 corners of the intersection of Greenwich and Fillmore.
There are also several other bars/clubs/taverns in that area and it has a reputation as a pickup place.
If you are not yet 21, there are still numerous coffee shops, restaurants and outdoor festivals where there a lots of single women.
The Union Street festival is this coming weekend, and there will be plenty of hot, single women there.
www.unionstreetfestival.com
Oh, and during tourist season which runs from about now until mid-October, there are plenty of European women here on vacation and they are not worried about their reputations.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Not to many things will get your game shut down faster than using the term "Frisco" around the locals.Originally posted by icequake_00
where can i look for some HOT asian ass in frisco??
OTOH, SF has a large Asian population and there are plenty of hot Asian girls all over.
Derek Flint
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The Matrix, The Balboa Cafe, Eastside West, City Tavern, Triangle Lounge, Hi-Fi, Cozmo's, Mauna Loa, Gravity Room, Comet Club, Bar None, Blue Light, La Barca's, Silver Cloud
Most of these are bar/restaraunt type places, so most of them have no cover charge, and there is lots of street game as well because of all the foot traffic from people walking from place to place.
Good F/M ratio too - probably 50/50 and a majority of the girls are hot.
The age group is generlly 21-30, but that depends on the venue.
Weekends are best, but Thursday nights are good too, but it tends to die out around Midnight.