"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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DrMetallica
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AC/DC
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Go to SF's "Hooters"!
rgeere
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Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.Originally posted by Celadus
Anyone know the San Francisco bay area? Any suggestions on where to go to meet straight people 18 to about 22?
The_Mole
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i havent been with a girl in 2 years and i'm planning to stay like this
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Obviously, your post is based on ignorance.Originally posted by rgeere
Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.
My bet is that you've never spent any amount of time in SF or the Bay Area, and that your opinion is based on some media stereotype.
SF is a great place to meet single women and there are plenty of them.
If you're 21, check out the "Triangle" so named for the 3 bars/taverns that occupy 3 of the 4 corners of the intersection of Greenwich and Fillmore.
There are also several other bars/clubs/taverns in that area and it has a reputation as a pickup place.
If you are not yet 21, there are still numerous coffee shops, restaurants and outdoor festivals where there a lots of single women.
The Union Street festival is this coming weekend, and there will be plenty of hot, single women there.
www.unionstreetfestival.com
Oh, and during tourist season which runs from about now until mid-October, there are plenty of European women here on vacation and they are not worried about their reputations.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Not to many things will get your game shut down faster than using the term "Frisco" around the locals.Originally posted by icequake_00
where can i look for some HOT asian ass in frisco??
OTOH, SF has a large Asian population and there are plenty of hot Asian girls all over.
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The Matrix, The Balboa Cafe, Eastside West, City Tavern, Triangle Lounge, Hi-Fi, Cozmo's, Mauna Loa, Gravity Room, Comet Club, Bar None, Blue Light, La Barca's, Silver Cloud
Most of these are bar/restaraunt type places, so most of them have no cover charge, and there is lots of street game as well because of all the foot traffic from people walking from place to place.
Good F/M ratio too - probably 50/50 and a majority of the girls are hot.
The age group is generlly 21-30, but that depends on the venue.
Weekends are best, but Thursday nights are good too, but it tends to die out around Midnight.