Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
doctoroxygen
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DrMetallica
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AC/DC
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Go to SF's "Hooters"!
rgeere
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Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.Originally posted by Celadus
Anyone know the San Francisco bay area? Any suggestions on where to go to meet straight people 18 to about 22?
The_Mole
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i havent been with a girl in 2 years and i'm planning to stay like this
Derek Flint
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Obviously, your post is based on ignorance.Originally posted by rgeere
Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.
My bet is that you've never spent any amount of time in SF or the Bay Area, and that your opinion is based on some media stereotype.
SF is a great place to meet single women and there are plenty of them.
If you're 21, check out the "Triangle" so named for the 3 bars/taverns that occupy 3 of the 4 corners of the intersection of Greenwich and Fillmore.
There are also several other bars/clubs/taverns in that area and it has a reputation as a pickup place.
If you are not yet 21, there are still numerous coffee shops, restaurants and outdoor festivals where there a lots of single women.
The Union Street festival is this coming weekend, and there will be plenty of hot, single women there.
www.unionstreetfestival.com
Oh, and during tourist season which runs from about now until mid-October, there are plenty of European women here on vacation and they are not worried about their reputations.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Not to many things will get your game shut down faster than using the term "Frisco" around the locals.Originally posted by icequake_00
where can i look for some HOT asian ass in frisco??
OTOH, SF has a large Asian population and there are plenty of hot Asian girls all over.
Derek Flint
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The Matrix, The Balboa Cafe, Eastside West, City Tavern, Triangle Lounge, Hi-Fi, Cozmo's, Mauna Loa, Gravity Room, Comet Club, Bar None, Blue Light, La Barca's, Silver Cloud
Most of these are bar/restaraunt type places, so most of them have no cover charge, and there is lots of street game as well because of all the foot traffic from people walking from place to place.
Good F/M ratio too - probably 50/50 and a majority of the girls are hot.
The age group is generlly 21-30, but that depends on the venue.
Weekends are best, but Thursday nights are good too, but it tends to die out around Midnight.