"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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DrMetallica
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
AC/DC
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Go to SF's "Hooters"!
rgeere
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Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.Originally posted by Celadus
Anyone know the San Francisco bay area? Any suggestions on where to go to meet straight people 18 to about 22?
The_Mole
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i havent been with a girl in 2 years and i'm planning to stay like this
Derek Flint
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Obviously, your post is based on ignorance.Originally posted by rgeere
Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.
My bet is that you've never spent any amount of time in SF or the Bay Area, and that your opinion is based on some media stereotype.
SF is a great place to meet single women and there are plenty of them.
If you're 21, check out the "Triangle" so named for the 3 bars/taverns that occupy 3 of the 4 corners of the intersection of Greenwich and Fillmore.
There are also several other bars/clubs/taverns in that area and it has a reputation as a pickup place.
If you are not yet 21, there are still numerous coffee shops, restaurants and outdoor festivals where there a lots of single women.
The Union Street festival is this coming weekend, and there will be plenty of hot, single women there.
www.unionstreetfestival.com
Oh, and during tourist season which runs from about now until mid-October, there are plenty of European women here on vacation and they are not worried about their reputations.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Derek Flint
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Not to many things will get your game shut down faster than using the term "Frisco" around the locals.Originally posted by icequake_00
where can i look for some HOT asian ass in frisco??
OTOH, SF has a large Asian population and there are plenty of hot Asian girls all over.
Derek Flint
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The Matrix, The Balboa Cafe, Eastside West, City Tavern, Triangle Lounge, Hi-Fi, Cozmo's, Mauna Loa, Gravity Room, Comet Club, Bar None, Blue Light, La Barca's, Silver Cloud
Most of these are bar/restaraunt type places, so most of them have no cover charge, and there is lots of street game as well because of all the foot traffic from people walking from place to place.
Good F/M ratio too - probably 50/50 and a majority of the girls are hot.
The age group is generlly 21-30, but that depends on the venue.
Weekends are best, but Thursday nights are good too, but it tends to die out around Midnight.