"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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DrMetallica
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
AC/DC
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Go to SF's "Hooters"!
rgeere
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Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.Originally posted by Celadus
Anyone know the San Francisco bay area? Any suggestions on where to go to meet straight people 18 to about 22?
The_Mole
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i havent been with a girl in 2 years and i'm planning to stay like this
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Obviously, your post is based on ignorance.Originally posted by rgeere
Good luck, on average only two out of every seven people you see are true to God heterosexuals. I'd find another town personally.
My bet is that you've never spent any amount of time in SF or the Bay Area, and that your opinion is based on some media stereotype.
SF is a great place to meet single women and there are plenty of them.
If you're 21, check out the "Triangle" so named for the 3 bars/taverns that occupy 3 of the 4 corners of the intersection of Greenwich and Fillmore.
There are also several other bars/clubs/taverns in that area and it has a reputation as a pickup place.
If you are not yet 21, there are still numerous coffee shops, restaurants and outdoor festivals where there a lots of single women.
The Union Street festival is this coming weekend, and there will be plenty of hot, single women there.
www.unionstreetfestival.com
Oh, and during tourist season which runs from about now until mid-October, there are plenty of European women here on vacation and they are not worried about their reputations.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Not to many things will get your game shut down faster than using the term "Frisco" around the locals.Originally posted by icequake_00
where can i look for some HOT asian ass in frisco??
OTOH, SF has a large Asian population and there are plenty of hot Asian girls all over.
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The Matrix, The Balboa Cafe, Eastside West, City Tavern, Triangle Lounge, Hi-Fi, Cozmo's, Mauna Loa, Gravity Room, Comet Club, Bar None, Blue Light, La Barca's, Silver Cloud
Most of these are bar/restaraunt type places, so most of them have no cover charge, and there is lots of street game as well because of all the foot traffic from people walking from place to place.
Good F/M ratio too - probably 50/50 and a majority of the girls are hot.
The age group is generlly 21-30, but that depends on the venue.
Weekends are best, but Thursday nights are good too, but it tends to die out around Midnight.