heteropedro
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Which one should I do for my cardio?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Run or bike
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Soshyopathe
Master Don Juan
run
Suaveman
Don Juan
run
heteropedro
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lol run it is
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
xyzzy
Senior Don Juan
good choice my man
Don Chico
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At a high cadence on a bike (over 50 rpm pedaling), one will burn more with biking per time unit. Biking is better and lower impact; but running is easier and requires less equipment.
Personally, I alternate every other day between biking 30 miles (about 2 hours) and running. (and I take two days off per week)
If you have a good bike, then bike; if you don't, then run.
Personally, I alternate every other day between biking 30 miles (about 2 hours) and running. (and I take two days off per week)
If you have a good bike, then bike; if you don't, then run.
myfriendblu
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Im highly against biking. basically its been proven to wreck HAVOCK on your testicals. Its been proven to lower sperm counts in dozens of studies.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
willo
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That's what nicks are for mygriendblu.
DJintheworks
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I slowly shredded my achillies tendon while I used to be a biking animal. it doesnt kill your balls unless you ride all day like the pros. even then lance armstrong has had a couple of kids even after cancer and all that prostate pinching.
still my vote goes for no cardio, but if you must, then run.
still my vote goes for no cardio, but if you must, then run.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Definitely bike, on and off road.
Jango_Xavier
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I would go for running because when I bike my nuts go from side to side and hurts too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Did I mention that in my experience, I run into more fit women while cycling 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.