The real solution is to find another woman that you like more than her. Then none of this will matter.
I have a very obsessive personality and I'm very vindictive. I hate losing. Sure I can find a better woman that's no problem.. But the way things ended with my ex, I just want revenge.
When I broke NC back in July using my son's phone, I kid you not she texted my mother telling about it. My mother than naively texted my son's mother. Then my son's mother called my ex. I can only imagine what they spoke.
I read my ex text to my mother. Sosomething along the lines.
"ricboy texted me using your grandchild phone with lies. He is not well. He attacked me and has tried to contact me a few times. I'm worried because if your grandchild moves here to live with Ricboy, I'm sure he is not gonna let the kid play with my daughter and there is no way I can keep na eye on the kid to make sure he is safe.
If I suspect he is not a good dad to his kid I'm going to the social services.
Please never show this message to Ricboy or all hell is gonna break loose"
I kid you not, she texted that to my mom.
I really want to somehow hurt her emotionally. I'm not gonna let the kids meet.