AlmostThere!
Senior Don Juan
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How old is your sister? I can scratch her itch.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rejecting -- a family member. My sister keeps trying to 'be close'.
- Thread starter Accension
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
Post pics of her!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i think you should talk to your parents about it.
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i posted once and it has multiple double posts. can a mod zap the extras away?
JabberWalkie
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Maybe try finding some more professional help rather than some random Yahoos on the internets.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Come on guys. You're being duped.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
If you looked at the majority of my threads, you would see I give quality advice.Iceberg said:
(I think anyway)Now, when I ask for help, it's for extreme issues not your average "this girl likes me.." stuff.
By the way, that party went well and banging girls at your girlfriend's party may seem absurd but how on earth is that trolling.
I'm sorry I don't fit in with the typical guy asking how to kiss or something like that.