AlmostThere!
Senior Don Juan
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How old is your sister? I can scratch her itch.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rejecting -- a family member. My sister keeps trying to 'be close'.
- Thread starter Accension
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
Post pics of her!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i think you should talk to your parents about it.
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i posted once and it has multiple double posts. can a mod zap the extras away?
JabberWalkie
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Maybe try finding some more professional help rather than some random Yahoos on the internets.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Come on guys. You're being duped.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
If you looked at the majority of my threads, you would see I give quality advice.Iceberg said:
(I think anyway)Now, when I ask for help, it's for extreme issues not your average "this girl likes me.." stuff.
By the way, that party went well and banging girls at your girlfriend's party may seem absurd but how on earth is that trolling.
I'm sorry I don't fit in with the typical guy asking how to kiss or something like that.