"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Rejecting -- a family member. My sister keeps trying to 'be close'.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Don Wha

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2010
Messages
69
Reaction score
0
Location
San Diego
thats pretty damn weird. I dont have a sister... so I wouldn't know what to say. I'm just glad I'm not in your shoes! Good luck!
 

HolyG

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2006
Messages
485
Reaction score
16
build up one of your friends as a sex god and introduce him to her..make sure he has decent game...try and pass the fetish onto him.

wait, are you ****ing with us?
 

Kal

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2009
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Guess I was right about she having a sick fetish. Keep your distance, unless you want kids with webbed feet
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
i think you should talk to your parents about it.
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!

perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.

normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.

if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
i posted once and it has multiple double posts. can a mod zap the extras away?
 

Ddon1

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2010
Messages
18
Reaction score
0
Beat it Up!

(Y'know its in the back of your mind, otherwise you would'nt start a topic on it)
 

JabberWalkie

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2010
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Maybe try finding some more professional help rather than some random Yahoos on the internets.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
Come on guys. You're being duped.

A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843

Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"

You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
 

f283000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2007
Messages
2,153
Reaction score
197
Iceberg said:
Come on guys. You're being duped.

A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843

Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"

You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
If this is true that he is a known troll I propose to the mods that he be banned specially after making a thread like this one. We don't need this stuff in sosuave.
 

Accension

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2009
Messages
288
Reaction score
20
Location
Australia, ?
Iceberg said:
Come on guys. You're being duped.

A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843

Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"

You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
If you looked at the majority of my threads, you would see I give quality advice. :) (I think anyway)
Now, when I ask for help, it's for extreme issues not your average "this girl likes me.." stuff.

By the way, that party went well and banging girls at your girlfriend's party may seem absurd but how on earth is that trolling.
I'm sorry I don't fit in with the typical guy asking how to kiss or something like that.
 
Top