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How old is your sister? I can scratch her itch.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If this is true that he is a known troll I propose to the mods that he be banned specially after making a thread like this one. We don't need this stuff in sosuave.Iceberg said:Come on guys. You're being duped.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
If you looked at the majority of my threads, you would see I give quality advice.Iceberg said:Come on guys. You're being duped.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.