AlmostThere!
Senior Don Juan
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How old is your sister? I can scratch her itch.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Rejecting -- a family member. My sister keeps trying to 'be close'.
- Thread starter Accension
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
Post pics of her!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i think you should talk to your parents about it.
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i posted once and it has multiple double posts. can a mod zap the extras away?
JabberWalkie
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Maybe try finding some more professional help rather than some random Yahoos on the internets.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Come on guys. You're being duped.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
If you looked at the majority of my threads, you would see I give quality advice.Iceberg said:
(I think anyway)Now, when I ask for help, it's for extreme issues not your average "this girl likes me.." stuff.
By the way, that party went well and banging girls at your girlfriend's party may seem absurd but how on earth is that trolling.
I'm sorry I don't fit in with the typical guy asking how to kiss or something like that.