AlmostThere!
Senior Don Juan
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How old is your sister? I can scratch her itch.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Rejecting -- a family member. My sister keeps trying to 'be close'.
- Thread starter Accension
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
Post pics of her!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i think you should talk to your parents about it.
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
because IT IS WEIRD AND DISTURBING!
perhaps she has unknown issues that need to be dealt with.
but the fact remains that these issues need to be addressed and dealt with correctly and that she may need some professional help.
normal teenage brothers and sisters do not want to even sit on the same couch together, let alone cuddle up.
if this behavior continues, it may blow up in your face when she starts telling people about incest, whether it exists or not!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i posted once and it has multiple double posts. can a mod zap the extras away?
JabberWalkie
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Maybe try finding some more professional help rather than some random Yahoos on the internets.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Come on guys. You're being duped.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
A) If your sister was coming onto you, would you discuss it with a bunch of strangers? What are we, psychologists?
B) Accension has started such wonderful threads as this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1665843#post1665843
Summary: "How can I bang multiple girls at my girlfriend's party?"
You guys are getting trolled. Move on.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
If you looked at the majority of my threads, you would see I give quality advice.Iceberg said:
(I think anyway)Now, when I ask for help, it's for extreme issues not your average "this girl likes me.." stuff.
By the way, that party went well and banging girls at your girlfriend's party may seem absurd but how on earth is that trolling.
I'm sorry I don't fit in with the typical guy asking how to kiss or something like that.