We'll only if u think about it. If I listen to adore by Amy Shark reminds me of how totally a girl can be into you. Now I know the fickleness but I m just amused by it. Women r 80% preprogrammed. Work with the code no point hating on it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
taiyuu_otoko
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That's on you, not red pill BS.
Kind of like learning to separate, in your mind, any musicians political beliefs with their music.
If you expect the world to believe and behave in the way you prefer, you're going to have problems.
Most, if not all, of Red Pill is simply childish temper tantrum.
Misery loving company.
Everything costs something.
mrgoodstuff
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Yep. Understand the modern programming within music, television and social and use it for your advantage.
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How do you suggest doing so? Can you give an example?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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He just gave that some "Adore" by Amy Shark. So I checked out the lyrics. All the movies show womens desires and fantasies. What are women's fantasies that listen to certain sects and genres of music? If a female listens to a rock and roll what's her fantasies? What about a female who listens to "Megan the Stallion"? What's her fantasy? What about one who listens to trap and stripper music? What is the Alpha male in that view point? Is it the drug dealer? Etc. Figure it out.
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"your blood like ice", "my pain your thrill" , "I wanna kiss you but your lips are venomous poison"
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I’m able to separate the two in my mind. I still really enjoy some sappy songs and I’m blackpill af lol.
There's no "conflict." Women like sappy songs too. But she is imaging Chad/Tyrone singing these songs to her.
There's no "conflict." Women like sappy songs too. But she is imaging Chad/Tyrone singing these songs to her.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Anyway if you recall european discodance mid 00s, you will remember certain songs about girls in the opposite position.
I think songs like these wouldnt be welcome nowadays, she is even willing to make an effort to get her BF back.
I think songs like these wouldnt be welcome nowadays, she is even willing to make an effort to get her BF back.
@Who Dares Win bringing back the coop ... respect. Chickens beware.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I was just thinking about this.
There's always going to be an exchange of goods or services.
Quid pro quo.
MrWood
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If you listen to 70s pop/rock, the level of pedestalizaion is incredible
every song is the GUY BEGGING and WAITING for a SIGN/SIGNAL and about HOW SHE LEFT HIM for another guy
its no wonder AFC afflicted many of us as we literally had BLUE PILLS injected into our brains
every song is the GUY BEGGING and WAITING for a SIGN/SIGNAL and about HOW SHE LEFT HIM for another guy
its no wonder AFC afflicted many of us as we literally had BLUE PILLS injected into our brains
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.