"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rate This Girl

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  • 10 - As pretty as they come

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 9 - St Pauli Girl incarnate

    Votes: 1 2.7%
  • 8 - Pretty hot

    Votes: 5 13.5%
  • 7 - Attractive

    Votes: 12 32.4%
  • 6 - Slightly above average

    Votes: 10 27.0%
  • 5 - average

    Votes: 9 24.3%
  • 1-4 (I voted for Hillary)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
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SmooveMooves

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These pictures of her are unflattering. As a photographer I'm sure you know that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think the smirk is what bothers me, plus she appears to have no boobs. The pictures make me think that if she opened her mouth we'd see a set of meth teeth.
 

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I would put her at a 6. I like this thread, if you guys think she is a 6 then im def pushin towards an 8 :D lol a 7.7!!
I do think that, give her 7 more years, and she will grow into herself and be very attractive. I think she needs mode curves. bewbs would be nice and a rear end would help.
 

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The only decent one was girl #4. The others aren't attractive at all.

How about if you post some Asian or Latina girls?
 

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SHE AIN'T GOT A BODY BRO!! What the heck is this?? She doesn't have to have giant knockers or anything, but at least have 'dat ass', which she does not. 6 or 7. I voted for 7 cuz I can tell she at least tries to take care of her looks. However, the prettiest girl you ever saw? No where close dude. I believe most men on planet Earth may think she is at least attractive, but definitely not the hottest chick ever. Far from it. Come back when you find a chick with unrealistically insane hip to waist ratio, big natural tits, beautiful child-bearing hips, a face feminine and docile yet submissive, and an ass that'll make the world go round. Then put it on here and tell us where we can find her haha. But until then, she is a 6; 7 at best.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I went to Paris on school trip when I was sixteen. There was a girl from my school who was on the trip also. She was a year younger than me. She was very similar to the girl in tis threads picture. We had been eying each other up for months, so we both were happy on trip night when realised each other were going on the trip.

I pursued her on the trip but nothing came of it (she had a bf back at our school) she dumped her bf for me when we arrived back home from trip.

I thought that this girl was one of the prettiest girls in the whole school, but by the time it dawned on me that something was going to happen between us, i couldn't shake the fact that i thought she was to skinny. My friends also said she was to skinny.
In the end her friend approached me & told me the girl wanted a LTR with me. I reluctantly told her that i wasn't interested.

I seen her years later in a club, dancing on a podium, she had filled out by then. She was one of the hottest girls in the club that night. I thought to myself damn she has turned out mighty fine indeed. I had a feeling she would. As soon as she saw me, she came up & started talking to me. I wondered why some guys were staring at me (it turns out she was in a LTR with one of the local gangsters)
 

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[QUOTE=" Come back when you find a chick with unrealistically insane hip to waist ratio, big natural tits, beautiful child-bearing hips, a face feminine and docile yet submissive, and an ass that'll make the world go round. .[/QUOTE]

My Gf is'nt far off your description. She has started going swimming with her friend. My girl has big tits, but her friends are even bigger. HUGE. Anyway when she told me about the swimming, i thought about other men seeing her so i told her i wanted to see her in her bathing costume. She has a little fat around stomach area, but i'm not that fussed about that. I was really amazed at her stomach to hip ratio though. Tremendous. She knows she has top tits. She knows men will drool over them. She has a fat ass, but, i think it's great. I complimented her on it in the past & she said a few men have complimented her in the past. She is fully aware she has a hot ass. She has a beautiful face too. Because of that, i'm still not bored of fu*king her after two years =)
 

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She is not my type and I would not approach. But there is nothing wrong with her. If she's your type then go get her.
 

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bigneils "girls" are some "normal" looking people in my folks, not exceptionally good looking or bodied. Now he can treat them like a 9 or 10 if that boosts her ego and gets him more puzzy, but we know he likes to financially pad them, probably a bit too much for what he's getting. I dunno, I think most of the men here if they worked on it could be a little higher than these ladies SMV wize.
So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.

Until you sh!twagons show us proof of hotter women via photos, we will assume you are a bunch of whining, Hillary-supporting, overweight black women in their 40's.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.

Until you sh!twagons show us proof of hotter women via photos, we will assume you are a bunch of whining, Hillary-supporting, overweight black women in their 40's.
I'm not mad at you. I've been with some nice ones man... They are just women. And these women should feel blessed to be able to interact with you. I personally think you don't have to spend much at all. Of course odd dates here and there, but you can insist they pay a certain percentage of dates, afterall they are working women.
 

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We always have to make them feel like they are invested. This is by pushing boundaries. Always make sure she gives a little more on each date. Say no sometimes. Bargain with her sometimes (tell her she should buy you a drink). She should drive to see you. The more work she does, the more she will subconsciously think "I must like him". Also, the more they think about you, the more they will like you, so you must be mysterious to make them think about you more. If they have you figured out, their minds will focus on other men.
 

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We always have to make them feel like they are invested. This is by pushing boundaries. Always make sure she gives a little more on each date. Say no sometimes. Bargain with her sometimes (tell her she should buy you a drink). She should drive to see you. The more work she does, the more she will subconsciously think "I must like him". Also, the more they think about you, the more they will like you, so you must be mysterious to make them think about you more. If they have you figured out, their minds will focus on other men.
Yeah, I learned that too. The more you "let" DO for you the MORE they LIKE you. It's in their actions reinforcing it. I have made mistakes being "too giving". It's not necessary, and it also dims attractions in a high percentage of females.
 

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I don't always embrace PUA ideas and tactics, but I fully agree with this one, without reservation. If you can get a woman to invest in you, to do things for you, that is only going to strengthen her attraction.
 

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To be fair, SS was accurate in this review of 6ish. This girl needs better posture.

 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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To be fair, SS was accurate in this review of 6ish. This girl needs better posture.
Lol, she does have terrible posture, I didn't even notice that.

I still think it's odd that she smiles with her mouth closed. Most women look like they're trying to show as many teeth as they can when they smile - as long as they're dentally sound, of course.
 

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I think she could be a 9 if she improved her posture. She is stunning in person.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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