SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
These pictures of her are unflattering. As a photographer I'm sure you know that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.bigneils "girls" are some "normal" looking people in my folks, not exceptionally good looking or bodied. Now he can treat them like a 9 or 10 if that boosts her ego and gets him more puzzy, but we know he likes to financially pad them, probably a bit too much for what he's getting. I dunno, I think most of the men here if they worked on it could be a little higher than these ladies SMV wize.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not mad at you. I've been with some nice ones man... They are just women. And these women should feel blessed to be able to interact with you. I personally think you don't have to spend much at all. Of course odd dates here and there, but you can insist they pay a certain percentage of dates, afterall they are working women.So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.
Until you sh!twagons show us proof of hotter women via photos, we will assume you are a bunch of whining, Hillary-supporting, overweight black women in their 40's.
Yeah, I learned that too. The more you "let" DO for you the MORE they LIKE you. It's in their actions reinforcing it. I have made mistakes being "too giving". It's not necessary, and it also dims attractions in a high percentage of females.We always have to make them feel like they are invested. This is by pushing boundaries. Always make sure she gives a little more on each date. Say no sometimes. Bargain with her sometimes (tell her she should buy you a drink). She should drive to see you. The more work she does, the more she will subconsciously think "I must like him". Also, the more they think about you, the more they will like you, so you must be mysterious to make them think about you more. If they have you figured out, their minds will focus on other men.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lol, she does have terrible posture, I didn't even notice that.To be fair, SS was accurate in this review of 6ish. This girl needs better posture.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.