SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
These pictures of her are unflattering. As a photographer I'm sure you know that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.bigneils "girls" are some "normal" looking people in my folks, not exceptionally good looking or bodied. Now he can treat them like a 9 or 10 if that boosts her ego and gets him more puzzy, but we know he likes to financially pad them, probably a bit too much for what he's getting. I dunno, I think most of the men here if they worked on it could be a little higher than these ladies SMV wize.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm not mad at you. I've been with some nice ones man... They are just women. And these women should feel blessed to be able to interact with you. I personally think you don't have to spend much at all. Of course odd dates here and there, but you can insist they pay a certain percentage of dates, afterall they are working women.So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.
Until you sh!twagons show us proof of hotter women via photos, we will assume you are a bunch of whining, Hillary-supporting, overweight black women in their 40's.
Yeah, I learned that too. The more you "let" DO for you the MORE they LIKE you. It's in their actions reinforcing it. I have made mistakes being "too giving". It's not necessary, and it also dims attractions in a high percentage of females.We always have to make them feel like they are invested. This is by pushing boundaries. Always make sure she gives a little more on each date. Say no sometimes. Bargain with her sometimes (tell her she should buy you a drink). She should drive to see you. The more work she does, the more she will subconsciously think "I must like him". Also, the more they think about you, the more they will like you, so you must be mysterious to make them think about you more. If they have you figured out, their minds will focus on other men.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lol, she does have terrible posture, I didn't even notice that.To be fair, SS was accurate in this review of 6ish. This girl needs better posture.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.