SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
These pictures of her are unflattering. As a photographer I'm sure you know that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.bigneils "girls" are some "normal" looking people in my folks, not exceptionally good looking or bodied. Now he can treat them like a 9 or 10 if that boosts her ego and gets him more puzzy, but we know he likes to financially pad them, probably a bit too much for what he's getting. I dunno, I think most of the men here if they worked on it could be a little higher than these ladies SMV wize.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm not mad at you. I've been with some nice ones man... They are just women. And these women should feel blessed to be able to interact with you. I personally think you don't have to spend much at all. Of course odd dates here and there, but you can insist they pay a certain percentage of dates, afterall they are working women.So they're average looking AND I have to pay? And you get hotter women for free? How do explain my sleeping with the prom queen who is 19 a few weeks ago? You have nothing on me but sour grapes.
Until you sh!twagons show us proof of hotter women via photos, we will assume you are a bunch of whining, Hillary-supporting, overweight black women in their 40's.
Yeah, I learned that too. The more you "let" DO for you the MORE they LIKE you. It's in their actions reinforcing it. I have made mistakes being "too giving". It's not necessary, and it also dims attractions in a high percentage of females.We always have to make them feel like they are invested. This is by pushing boundaries. Always make sure she gives a little more on each date. Say no sometimes. Bargain with her sometimes (tell her she should buy you a drink). She should drive to see you. The more work she does, the more she will subconsciously think "I must like him". Also, the more they think about you, the more they will like you, so you must be mysterious to make them think about you more. If they have you figured out, their minds will focus on other men.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lol, she does have terrible posture, I didn't even notice that.To be fair, SS was accurate in this review of 6ish. This girl needs better posture.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.