"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick Question, just wanna know your stance on "grabbin" yourself

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I don't take this topic too seriously, but I was wondering what you guys think about guys/don juans grabbing their ****s in public. You know like you see start highschool quarterbacks do in movies. haha, just wondering.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What in the world caused you to wonder this?
 

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Originally posted by NRM
What in the world caused you to wonder this?

He's 14 years old... go figure. :rolleyes:


Grab it if you like, I don't really give a damn, kid.;)
 

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Yeah, go ahead.

Just don't expect to get any girls.

None.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you look like a douche if you do that.....trust me, back in high school when i got random boners i did it all the time for "adjustments", i remember i got made fun of it one time.....dont grab your nuts, its just rude
I don't care if some people say "im a man and ill grab my balls if i feel like it" nonsense. It's just common decency. Besides, how would you like it if a girl kept pulling at a tampon through her pants?
 

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i think it's not a bad idea because it gets women to see you as a sexual being. it also shows that you don't give a shyt/ are comfortable with your sexuality. just don't over do it
 

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Haha "in the opinion of the chair, the naes have it"
 

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I know a jock that goes around school adjusting and scratchin the family jewels.

He hasn't gotten any girls in along time.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
It's childish.
you're so wrong. it's only when I grab myself during class or, better yet, on stage during on assembly that I am truly the epitome of a don juan.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why the hell was this moved to this forum? haha i originally posted in the Anything Else forum. And wha the hell, people tend to blow this out of proportion (or maybe i cant sence saracasm online haha)
 

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A general stfu to all the nay sayers and their retarded 'decency' arguments.

A round of 'I will scratch myself whenever I feel the god damned need to and not think twice about it' to the orginal poster.

Go Porky.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
A general stfu to all the nay sayers and their retarded 'decency' arguments.

A round of 'I will scratch myself whenever I feel the god damned need to and not think twice about it' to the orginal poster.

Go Porky.
I agree, do whatever you feel comfortable with. As long as your confident about it, F*ck everyone else.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
A general stfu to all the nay sayers and their retarded 'decency' arguments.

A round of 'I will scratch myself whenever I feel the god damned need to and not think twice about it' to the orginal poster.

Go Porky.
I think you're just proving that age does reflect immaturity.
 

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A Don is calm, cool, confident, and dignified. How dignified can you be when you are grabbin at your crotch? It makes you look like you should be sitting on your couch in sweats you havnt changed in days and a beer in your hand.

Whatever though, the more people that walk around and make themselves look like asses by doing so, just means I will look all the better by comparison. So by all mean, grab, scratch, and adjust whatever you want to whenever you want to.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
A general stfu to all the nay sayers and their retarded 'decency' arguments.

A round of 'I will scratch myself whenever I feel the god damned need to and not think twice about it' to the orginal poster.

Go Porky.
scratching is one thing. I even see girls scratching. it doesn't bother me a bit.

I got the impression that the original poster was talking about grabbing yourself for the hell of it.
 

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They probably have some type of fungus, that's why they can't wait until they get out of public sight, it's too painful. A little soap and water does wonders.
 

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Nothing classier than a guy walking down a street holding his package.
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by The TallOne
I think you're just proving that age does reflect immaturity.
I think that is the weakest argument I have ever heard. Perhaps even weaker than 'get a life'. Please, do not speak to me of maturity. You know nothing of me and while I would like to engage in a argument, I know nothing of you eather. But kindly, please remember that 3 lines is far from enough for you to judge anything of anyone.
 

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A few days ago in English, someone woke me up and pointed to this kid a few seats in front of me. He was wearing basketball shorts, and he had his hands inside his boxers. I have no idea what the fùck he was doing, nor do I want to know.

In conclusion, it's just disgusting so don't do it. If you have an erection, do a tail tuck, use your pockets, or just think unsexy thoughts. Don't just grab for your joystick.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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