Question for everyone, answer Honestly!

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

Originally posted by ikkenai
stab her

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Rex Man]

seeing as how that's never happened to me personally, I'd assume I'd be thrown off. And seeing as how there's nothing I really could do I would just say a smart ass remark and keep going.

It's the equivelent of getting your a$$ whooped; nuthin to do but keep on truckin.

 

[Q-Pid]

Originally posted by HuuBinh
A DJ wouldn't even put himself in such a position to be rejected in such a harsh manner in the first palce because he has already screened the girl.

A DJ would also anticipate the kinds of reactions coming from the girl according to how he projects himself when he approaches her.

The important thing to know is that, if a DJ projects a positve non-threatening vibe, he can anticipate the same positive responses from the girl.

What a great no-answer. I'm guessing you're a KBDJ.

 

[Bonhomme]

1. Keep walking.

I give my signal. No signal back... no go.

Do not place too much value on any one woman until she earns it.

 

[Socialreject]

Ok... HIGHLY dependant on my mood and the girl itself (looks, attitude etc) i would probably...

1) Approach her and just make a simply situational opener, not paying any attention to the fact that she was ignoring me. Or i would do a ****y opener along the lines of 'hi, i noticed you ignoring me and was just wondering if you could change that for a few minutes so i could get your opinion on something (situational)...'. Why? Hmmm, why do you approach any girl?

2) LOL. Ok i would definitely have a good ol' laugh before saying anything else. Then I'd say something like... "that time of the month huh" (in a friendly way), or "That's no kind of way to score points with me woman" (friendly). Maybe she would catch me one of my nasty morning moods (not a morning person) and it might be something more along the lines of "excuse me for being friendly 'your highness', something you obviously have no clue about. Time to consider therapy...kthxbye!" (i have a bad character traits that I'm basically not a very 'nice' person if you catch me in one of those moods).

How would i feel afterwards... Well if my friendly replies went anywhere I'd feel pretty good about it. If they went sour same deal (her problem not mine). If i was in a bad mood I'd prolly feel good as well after verbally owning her. So yeah...good basically, unless i fell on my ass. Then I'd feel more like 'ouch i got owned hard'...but oh well

 

[Danny001]

1. Hey, what's up? Are you lost? I can help you find your way.

2. I'm sorry lady. Should I call a doctor? I didn't realize you were so disturbed.

 

[SynapsyS]

Originally posted by white_hype
NOTICE: Please do not scroll down to see other responses first. Please list your honest reaction to the question.

1-OK, let's say you are walking down the street and have no plans for the rest of the day, its around 1pm, and on the way to class/the movies/grocery store/wherever and you see an attractive girl that you really want to talk to. You try for EC but she doesn't give it to you.

What would you HONESTLY do here,, why

2- Let's say you decide to approach her. You give her your opener (it doesn't matter what it was... either a simple HI, a situational one, a routine, etc, doesnt matter for this example) and she responds very badly. She replies "what the **** are you talking to me for? Do you really think you could get with someone like me? look at yourself! hahah you are so ugly and weird!"

How would you HONESTLY react? how would you feel after the approach?

Oh, and no, i didn' read any of the replies, so if Ive sorft of repeated something, then my bad guys.

1. So she didn't catch EC? So? I'd still open with her, and see where it goes. There are plenty of times this has happened, you have to be aware that sometimes girls are just busy. Of course, if you initiate EC, and she looks at you in disgust and turns away, avoids you, then don't be such a dumbass, read the signs This is more of a case by case question really.

2. How dare she insult me in a public place like that? Is she SO high and focking mighty that she has to degrade guys like that. Stupid botches like that don't deserve my time. And i'd say all that too. I'd probably use several sexist profanities in there as well, just to ram the point home.

Honest enough?

edit: read situation 1 wrong, answer ammended.

 

[spider_007]

1) i wouldn't approch (no EC)
2) i'd walk away laughing because she just showed me her true colours and saved me tons of time; she is a snob, she is inpolite, not respectfull......she takes a dum, and whipes her ass just like the rest of us, she is notting special (even tho she thinks she is.).....

 

[everywomanshero]

Answer

1. I would approach regardless of eye contact or lack of. Unless there was extreme circumstance preventing me from doing so. I mean, I don't approach every beautiful woman I see, all day everyday, because I may be feeling lazy, hungry, or something.

2. Well, that kind of thing happens. If she was really being extreme and she was solo, I guess I'd probably fire back some routines I developed for that. I made these up based on David D's style. I don't think I would be terribly upset, because we all know that's going to happen. It's just part of the deal.

 

[jiza101]

Originally posted by white_hype
NOTICE: Please do not scroll down to see other responses first. Please list your honest reaction to the question.

1-OK, let's say you are walking down the street and have no plans for the rest of the day, its around 1pm, and on the way to class/the movies/grocery store/wherever and you see an attractive girl that you really want to talk to. You try for EC but she doesn't give it to you.

What would you HONESTLY do here,, why

2- Let's say you decide to approach her. You give her your opener (it doesn't matter what it was... either a simple HI, a situational one, a routine, etc, doesnt matter for this example) and she responds very badly. She replies "what the **** are you talking to me for? Do you really think you could get with someone like me? look at yourself! hahah you are so ugly and weird!"

How would you HONESTLY react? how would you feel after the approach?

I would tell her to get some ****ing manners and to sort her **** out, then tell her to have a nice day.

 

[cant think of a user name]

In the 2nd scenario where the girl reacts really badly I would honestly wonder what her problem was?

Probably say something like:

"Relax. I'm not trying to pick you up..."

and probably leave

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

I don't see this ever happening to me; people love me.

I would tell to please work on her attitude, and I would walk away.

Has this ever happened to you?

 

[ItalianoPuro]

1 I would try to figure out some ****y opener and try to start a convo

2 I would feel a bit AnGrY! LOL! And don't know what I will do... never happened

let me read the other posts now