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Wow. How the hell did you find this Turbo? It's damn inspirational. And to think that almost the same day BJB submitted this thread, I was a hopeless AFC who couldn't even meet a girl at a bar.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pull up your seats,boys, the master is speaking....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
2N Turbo
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This is what I use to read back in the day. I use to be under a different screen name though.
TurboLover
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Bump, holla at cha boy.
Danny Zuko
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Damn fine post!! Agree 110%
You say you never had to use challenge, mystery etc, it's because the triats you had and were displaying were automatically making you Alpha!!...you were a true natural. Banging multiple chicks, reputation, you were Being MAN! and im guessing with all you're ****ing you would have unavailible [mystery, challenge].
Once again great post!
You say you never had to use challenge, mystery etc, it's because the triats you had and were displaying were automatically making you Alpha!!...you were a true natural. Banging multiple chicks, reputation, you were Being MAN! and im guessing with all you're ****ing you would have unavailible [mystery, challenge].
Once again great post!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Best....
Post....
Ever.
Post....
Ever.
2pacalypseNow
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haha, thanks for bumping this.
very good read.
very good read.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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great post
disciple
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Great post.
Very deserving of DJ Bible status.
I think mystery works best in group settings like a class or school where girls have a chance to observe you on a regular basis and "feel you out".
When they notice that you don't act all thirsty and desperate for p*ssy like the rest of the guys there, they start to get very curious and figure that the reason you are so composed and relaxed is because you must have alot of women already.
Women always want the man that is in demand from the other women and women are very competitive with each other.
When I find myself in a new group setting where there are many women to choose from, I'll usually be friendly and have light conversations with different women but make sure I don't fix my sights on any one particular chick and show her more attention than the rest so this way they'll all think they have an equal chance to be with me.
Women love nothing more than receiving attention from a man that they think the other girls want.
If you give them all equal attention, they'll fight to be the one who gets that special attention from you.
I just find it so much easier to pull chicks in a group or social setting than doing the cold approach on the street or someplace.
It gives you the time and opportunity to really work your game on alot of females at the same time and also increases your scoring percentage because the women get a chance to observe you on a regular basis and feel more comfortable f*cking with you.
Very deserving of DJ Bible status.
I think mystery works best in group settings like a class or school where girls have a chance to observe you on a regular basis and "feel you out".
When they notice that you don't act all thirsty and desperate for p*ssy like the rest of the guys there, they start to get very curious and figure that the reason you are so composed and relaxed is because you must have alot of women already.
Women always want the man that is in demand from the other women and women are very competitive with each other.
When I find myself in a new group setting where there are many women to choose from, I'll usually be friendly and have light conversations with different women but make sure I don't fix my sights on any one particular chick and show her more attention than the rest so this way they'll all think they have an equal chance to be with me.
Women love nothing more than receiving attention from a man that they think the other girls want.
If you give them all equal attention, they'll fight to be the one who gets that special attention from you.
I just find it so much easier to pull chicks in a group or social setting than doing the cold approach on the street or someplace.
It gives you the time and opportunity to really work your game on alot of females at the same time and also increases your scoring percentage because the women get a chance to observe you on a regular basis and feel more comfortable f*cking with you.
Craig Reeves
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This post definitely gets the Craig Reeves stamp of APPROVAL!
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Bondf
Bond, that was beautiful. Chapeau
Bond, that was beautiful. Chapeau
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
L777
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oh mate, stop trying to learn how to do it from sumone else and learn for yourself in the real world!gekkoca said:
And everyone saying "great post", i bet some of you still are trying to learn canned routines and phase shifts etc
As a guy who thinks all that stuff is bs, I'll say this from the heart...GREAT post
I love Hyori Lee
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great post.
paraguayandj
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true true
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.