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Wow. How the hell did you find this Turbo? It's damn inspirational. And to think that almost the same day BJB submitted this thread, I was a hopeless AFC who couldn't even meet a girl at a bar.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pull up your seats,boys, the master is speaking....
- Thread starter bondjamesbond
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
2N Turbo
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This is what I use to read back in the day. I use to be under a different screen name though.
TurboLover
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Bump, holla at cha boy.
Danny Zuko
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Damn fine post!! Agree 110%
You say you never had to use challenge, mystery etc, it's because the triats you had and were displaying were automatically making you Alpha!!...you were a true natural. Banging multiple chicks, reputation, you were Being MAN! and im guessing with all you're ****ing you would have unavailible [mystery, challenge].
Once again great post!
You say you never had to use challenge, mystery etc, it's because the triats you had and were displaying were automatically making you Alpha!!...you were a true natural. Banging multiple chicks, reputation, you were Being MAN! and im guessing with all you're ****ing you would have unavailible [mystery, challenge].
Once again great post!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Chris Dash
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Best....
Post....
Ever.
Post....
Ever.
2pacalypseNow
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haha, thanks for bumping this.
very good read.
very good read.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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great post
disciple
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Great post.
Very deserving of DJ Bible status.
I think mystery works best in group settings like a class or school where girls have a chance to observe you on a regular basis and "feel you out".
When they notice that you don't act all thirsty and desperate for p*ssy like the rest of the guys there, they start to get very curious and figure that the reason you are so composed and relaxed is because you must have alot of women already.
Women always want the man that is in demand from the other women and women are very competitive with each other.
When I find myself in a new group setting where there are many women to choose from, I'll usually be friendly and have light conversations with different women but make sure I don't fix my sights on any one particular chick and show her more attention than the rest so this way they'll all think they have an equal chance to be with me.
Women love nothing more than receiving attention from a man that they think the other girls want.
If you give them all equal attention, they'll fight to be the one who gets that special attention from you.
I just find it so much easier to pull chicks in a group or social setting than doing the cold approach on the street or someplace.
It gives you the time and opportunity to really work your game on alot of females at the same time and also increases your scoring percentage because the women get a chance to observe you on a regular basis and feel more comfortable f*cking with you.
Very deserving of DJ Bible status.
I think mystery works best in group settings like a class or school where girls have a chance to observe you on a regular basis and "feel you out".
When they notice that you don't act all thirsty and desperate for p*ssy like the rest of the guys there, they start to get very curious and figure that the reason you are so composed and relaxed is because you must have alot of women already.
Women always want the man that is in demand from the other women and women are very competitive with each other.
When I find myself in a new group setting where there are many women to choose from, I'll usually be friendly and have light conversations with different women but make sure I don't fix my sights on any one particular chick and show her more attention than the rest so this way they'll all think they have an equal chance to be with me.
Women love nothing more than receiving attention from a man that they think the other girls want.
If you give them all equal attention, they'll fight to be the one who gets that special attention from you.
I just find it so much easier to pull chicks in a group or social setting than doing the cold approach on the street or someplace.
It gives you the time and opportunity to really work your game on alot of females at the same time and also increases your scoring percentage because the women get a chance to observe you on a regular basis and feel more comfortable f*cking with you.
Craig Reeves
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This post definitely gets the Craig Reeves stamp of APPROVAL!
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Bondf
Bond, that was beautiful. Chapeau
Bond, that was beautiful. Chapeau
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
L777
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oh mate, stop trying to learn how to do it from sumone else and learn for yourself in the real world!gekkoca said:
And everyone saying "great post", i bet some of you still are trying to learn canned routines and phase shifts etc
As a guy who thinks all that stuff is bs, I'll say this from the heart...GREAT post
I love Hyori Lee
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great post.
paraguayandj
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true true
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.