"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pull up your seats,boys, the master is speaking....

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Wow. How the hell did you find this Turbo? It's damn inspirational. And to think that almost the same day BJB submitted this thread, I was a hopeless AFC who couldn't even meet a girl at a bar.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Rev
Wow. How the hell did you find this Turbo? It's damn inspirational. And to think that almost the same day BJB submitted this thread, I was a hopeless AFC who couldn't even meet a girl at a bar.
This is what I use to read back in the day. I use to be under a different screen name though.
 

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Damn fine post!! Agree 110%

You say you never had to use challenge, mystery etc, it's because the triats you had and were displaying were automatically making you Alpha!!...you were a true natural. Banging multiple chicks, reputation, you were Being MAN! and im guessing with all you're ****ing you would have unavailible [mystery, challenge].

Once again great post!
 

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And for guys who do want a relationship and companionship...?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ok throwing a coin away and saying fetch is the dumbest **** you can do, its like you want a fight, **** verbal alpha takes more skill then physical alpaness and it shows that your smart.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Great post.

Very deserving of DJ Bible status.

I think mystery works best in group settings like a class or school where girls have a chance to observe you on a regular basis and "feel you out".

When they notice that you don't act all thirsty and desperate for p*ssy like the rest of the guys there, they start to get very curious and figure that the reason you are so composed and relaxed is because you must have alot of women already.

Women always want the man that is in demand from the other women and women are very competitive with each other.

When I find myself in a new group setting where there are many women to choose from, I'll usually be friendly and have light conversations with different women but make sure I don't fix my sights on any one particular chick and show her more attention than the rest so this way they'll all think they have an equal chance to be with me.

Women love nothing more than receiving attention from a man that they think the other girls want.

If you give them all equal attention, they'll fight to be the one who gets that special attention from you.

I just find it so much easier to pull chicks in a group or social setting than doing the cold approach on the street or someplace.

It gives you the time and opportunity to really work your game on alot of females at the same time and also increases your scoring percentage because the women get a chance to observe you on a regular basis and feel more comfortable f*cking with you.
 

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a great post that needs to be read by all afcs. bumpin this up
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gekkoca said:
So Bond...
HOW DO YOU APPROACH WOMEN!
DO you flirt,are you persistant,do you use KINO?
Would love to hear more..........
oh mate, stop trying to learn how to do it from sumone else and learn for yourself in the real world!

And everyone saying "great post", i bet some of you still are trying to learn canned routines and phase shifts etc

As a guy who thinks all that stuff is bs, I'll say this from the heart...GREAT post
 

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true true
 

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This is an oldie post but a goodie!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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