"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pull up your seats,boys, the master is speaking....

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Wow. How the hell did you find this Turbo? It's damn inspirational. And to think that almost the same day BJB submitted this thread, I was a hopeless AFC who couldn't even meet a girl at a bar.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Rev
Wow. How the hell did you find this Turbo? It's damn inspirational. And to think that almost the same day BJB submitted this thread, I was a hopeless AFC who couldn't even meet a girl at a bar.
This is what I use to read back in the day. I use to be under a different screen name though.
 

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Damn fine post!! Agree 110%

You say you never had to use challenge, mystery etc, it's because the triats you had and were displaying were automatically making you Alpha!!...you were a true natural. Banging multiple chicks, reputation, you were Being MAN! and im guessing with all you're ****ing you would have unavailible [mystery, challenge].

Once again great post!
 

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And for guys who do want a relationship and companionship...?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok throwing a coin away and saying fetch is the dumbest **** you can do, its like you want a fight, **** verbal alpha takes more skill then physical alpaness and it shows that your smart.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Great post.

Very deserving of DJ Bible status.

I think mystery works best in group settings like a class or school where girls have a chance to observe you on a regular basis and "feel you out".

When they notice that you don't act all thirsty and desperate for p*ssy like the rest of the guys there, they start to get very curious and figure that the reason you are so composed and relaxed is because you must have alot of women already.

Women always want the man that is in demand from the other women and women are very competitive with each other.

When I find myself in a new group setting where there are many women to choose from, I'll usually be friendly and have light conversations with different women but make sure I don't fix my sights on any one particular chick and show her more attention than the rest so this way they'll all think they have an equal chance to be with me.

Women love nothing more than receiving attention from a man that they think the other girls want.

If you give them all equal attention, they'll fight to be the one who gets that special attention from you.

I just find it so much easier to pull chicks in a group or social setting than doing the cold approach on the street or someplace.

It gives you the time and opportunity to really work your game on alot of females at the same time and also increases your scoring percentage because the women get a chance to observe you on a regular basis and feel more comfortable f*cking with you.
 

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a great post that needs to be read by all afcs. bumpin this up
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gekkoca said:
So Bond...
HOW DO YOU APPROACH WOMEN!
DO you flirt,are you persistant,do you use KINO?
Would love to hear more..........
oh mate, stop trying to learn how to do it from sumone else and learn for yourself in the real world!

And everyone saying "great post", i bet some of you still are trying to learn canned routines and phase shifts etc

As a guy who thinks all that stuff is bs, I'll say this from the heart...GREAT post
 

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true true
 

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This is an oldie post but a goodie!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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