Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
you clench it with your teeth lol!!speakeasy said:Where does the weight go on a weighted pullup?
backpack, weightbelt with chain, ankle weights.speakeasy said:Where does the weight go on a weighted pullup?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm your height. just bend the knees.SayWord? said:how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
I am your height and like Teflon_Mcgee said bent your knees and do a full motion, try to feel your back muscles doing the job not your arms.SayWord? said:how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
Correct! Full extention of the arm! Otherwise you won't be workin the full muscle. Try and lift urself up so the bar touchs ur chest everytime you reach the peak of a rep. Pinches up them muscles a lil more. :rockon:Teflon_Mcgee said:Don't be one of those "half-rep" guys who think they're bad a$$es because they crank out a bunch really fast but only go half-way down.
::xander:: said:wide grip = wide
close grip = thick
overhand = guy way
underhand = girlie way
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
::xander:: said:wide grip = wide
close grip = thick
overhand = guy way
underhand = girlie way
wide grip overhand grip has almost doubled my width! i could barely do them at all when I started, now I rep with 70lbs hanging
Being_the_Don said:Why do you consider it the girly way? At my gym I haven't seen one woman do a pullup and most of the guys either use underhand or a variation of overhand and underhand.
i am me said:/\i dont think its girly man, what if someones just tryna build their biceps?
but thanks for explainin
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.