"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pull up / chin ups, how effective

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Are they good exercises to included ,what body parts do they workout ,and is it considered a compound move?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pullups and deadlifts are the best back movements available.

weighted pullups FTW!
 

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speakeasy said:
Where does the weight go on a weighted pullup?
you clench it with your teeth lol!!

you need a dip/pullup belt, you get a real nice one for about $35:up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ive been wondering a lil bit about pullups too...wuts the differences between overhand and underhand? and wide grip and close grip?
 

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wide grip = wide
close grip = thick

overhand = guy way
underhand = girlie way

wide grip overhand grip has almost doubled my width! i could barely do them at all when I started, now I rep with 70lbs hanging
 

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how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
 

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swinging is easy to do but just focus better and dont move your legs alot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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they are the most effective back workout with the bent over row and dead lift! I do them every morning when I wake up with push ups and parallel dips they are good for overall strength.
 

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SayWord? said:
how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
I'm your height. just bend the knees.
Don't swing or kip. Go up slowly in a nice controlled manner. Then all the way down until the elbows almost lock or fully lock (I always lock my elbows).

Don't be one of those "half-rep" guys who think they're bad a$$es because they crank out a bunch really fast but only go half-way down.
 

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SayWord? said:
how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
I am your height and like Teflon_Mcgee said bent your knees and do a full motion, try to feel your back muscles doing the job not your arms.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Don't be one of those "half-rep" guys who think they're bad a$$es because they crank out a bunch really fast but only go half-way down.
Correct! Full extention of the arm! Otherwise you won't be workin the full muscle. Try and lift urself up so the bar touchs ur chest everytime you reach the peak of a rep. Pinches up them muscles a lil more. :rockon:
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i have a very large penis, does that count for weighted pullups?
 

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::xander:: said:
wide grip = wide
close grip = thick

overhand = guy way
underhand = girlie way

wide grip overhand grip has almost doubled my width! i could barely do them at all when I started, now I rep with 70lbs hanging

Why do you consider it the girly way? At my gym I haven't seen one woman do a pullup and most of the guys either use underhand or a variation of overhand and underhand.
 

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Being_the_Don said:
Why do you consider it the girly way? At my gym I haven't seen one woman do a pullup and most of the guys either use underhand or a variation of overhand and underhand.

If you want a wide back you have to do them overhand (palms facing away).

For most people (people who don't train) this is much harder than underhand grip. It's weird because you are actually using a larger group of stronger muscles doing it overhand, so it seems it should be easier.

Doing it underhand isolates more of the bicep and takes alot of strain off the back. Trust me, as some one who at one point was doing 300 pull-ups per day, this will not build you like overhand grip will.

Even arnold considers wide grip pull-ups one of the best back builders there is.

Underhand is the girl way. Why? I don't know. It just is.
 

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/\i dont think its girly man, what if someones just tryna build their biceps?

but thanks for explainin
 

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i am me said:
/\i dont think its girly man, what if someones just tryna build their biceps?

but thanks for explainin

Word. For the record, I train with every grip including nutreal, underhand, both on a towel, and one on a towel one on the bar (over and underhand).

It's good to hit a variety.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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