"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pull up / chin ups, how effective

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Are they good exercises to included ,what body parts do they workout ,and is it considered a compound move?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pullups and deadlifts are the best back movements available.

weighted pullups FTW!
 

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speakeasy said:
Where does the weight go on a weighted pullup?
you clench it with your teeth lol!!

you need a dip/pullup belt, you get a real nice one for about $35:up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i am me

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ive been wondering a lil bit about pullups too...wuts the differences between overhand and underhand? and wide grip and close grip?
 

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wide grip = wide
close grip = thick

overhand = guy way
underhand = girlie way

wide grip overhand grip has almost doubled my width! i could barely do them at all when I started, now I rep with 70lbs hanging
 

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how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
 

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swinging is easy to do but just focus better and dont move your legs alot.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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they are the most effective back workout with the bent over row and dead lift! I do them every morning when I wake up with push ups and parallel dips they are good for overall strength.
 

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SayWord? said:
how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
I'm your height. just bend the knees.
Don't swing or kip. Go up slowly in a nice controlled manner. Then all the way down until the elbows almost lock or fully lock (I always lock my elbows).

Don't be one of those "half-rep" guys who think they're bad a$$es because they crank out a bunch really fast but only go half-way down.
 

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SayWord? said:
how tall are ya'll?
i'm 6"3' and the pull up bar is too short at my gym
how do ya'll tall guys do it?
also, how do ya'll avoid swinging alittle while hanging?
I am your height and like Teflon_Mcgee said bent your knees and do a full motion, try to feel your back muscles doing the job not your arms.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Don't be one of those "half-rep" guys who think they're bad a$$es because they crank out a bunch really fast but only go half-way down.
Correct! Full extention of the arm! Otherwise you won't be workin the full muscle. Try and lift urself up so the bar touchs ur chest everytime you reach the peak of a rep. Pinches up them muscles a lil more. :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i have a very large penis, does that count for weighted pullups?
 

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::xander:: said:
wide grip = wide
close grip = thick

overhand = guy way
underhand = girlie way

wide grip overhand grip has almost doubled my width! i could barely do them at all when I started, now I rep with 70lbs hanging

Why do you consider it the girly way? At my gym I haven't seen one woman do a pullup and most of the guys either use underhand or a variation of overhand and underhand.
 

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Being_the_Don said:
Why do you consider it the girly way? At my gym I haven't seen one woman do a pullup and most of the guys either use underhand or a variation of overhand and underhand.

If you want a wide back you have to do them overhand (palms facing away).

For most people (people who don't train) this is much harder than underhand grip. It's weird because you are actually using a larger group of stronger muscles doing it overhand, so it seems it should be easier.

Doing it underhand isolates more of the bicep and takes alot of strain off the back. Trust me, as some one who at one point was doing 300 pull-ups per day, this will not build you like overhand grip will.

Even arnold considers wide grip pull-ups one of the best back builders there is.

Underhand is the girl way. Why? I don't know. It just is.
 

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/\i dont think its girly man, what if someones just tryna build their biceps?

but thanks for explainin
 

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i am me said:
/\i dont think its girly man, what if someones just tryna build their biceps?

but thanks for explainin

Word. For the record, I train with every grip including nutreal, underhand, both on a towel, and one on a towel one on the bar (over and underhand).

It's good to hit a variety.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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