Francisco d'Anconia
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Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.SELF-MASTERY said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PuertoRican_Lover
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Helter Skelter
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No one deserved to be banned more than Player Supreme
The mods were right on that one.
He use to attack everything I said.
BTW who are all the people on this site now?
In fact, who is helter skelter?
I hardly recognize anyone here.
Getting banned is not such a big deal.
The average life span of a poster on SoSuave is about the same as the shelf life of yogurt.
At some point, you realize what you want/need in life is not found on this board.
The mods were right on that one.
He use to attack everything I said.
BTW who are all the people on this site now?
In fact, who is helter skelter?
I hardly recognize anyone here.
Getting banned is not such a big deal.
The average life span of a poster on SoSuave is about the same as the shelf life of yogurt.
At some point, you realize what you want/need in life is not found on this board.
Silverback82
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he seemed bitter and angry with women
ThunderMaverick
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No, he was bitter and angry with feminist and hors. Not women.
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They should be....errr nevermind take a look at this place lately, THEY ARE.Vincent said:
Surprisingly Desdinova and Rollo Tomassi were a good choice for a change.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
spider_007
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Tit-chump, when is your turn
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Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833spider_007 said:
Or you could just neg rep me again? Get the usual band of crabs to join in with you maybe.
spider_007
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-fraudulant? hardly!!, Somehow, with your views, i don't think you are getting laid eather, so we are on the same bout, just on the different ends.( . )( . ) said:
-"band of crabs" - not my style. You'll dig your own hole, you don't need me for that.
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Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?Francisco d'Anconia said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ThunderMaverick
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double post...-_-
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957
This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
American_Psycho
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Loosen up, dude. The guy who posted that is 17, he was at a party. People (especially 17-year olds) get drunk at parties. That isn't exactly rocket science. Where do you expect young people to go meet girls? The library?ThunderMaverick said:
spider_007
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dreamhenry, and onther guy made it up on Players padcast. :crackup:
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I thought that shyt was funny too...spider_007 said:
"should I be drunk and high all the time."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
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But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.SELF-MASTERY said:
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Duality:
You can be both. When I was interested in working in Law Enforcement the question of legalizing drugs was often brought up. My view on the subject was antithetical to that of all of the chiefs that I met, and many questioned if I could enforce laws that I didn't believe in. I'm sure that many soldiers of the holocaust had beliefs that differed from their leaders, but they enforced laws that they didn’t agree with in order to survive.
Code Switching:
Think of about slave abolitionists that had to hide their anti-slavery beliefs or any other group of people that have to serve to masters.
I don't have a problem believing that someone could synthesize (pimp+playa+motivational speaker) and end up as a well balanced person.
He even has a podcast where he responds to a guy asking how he [PS] could be such a playa, because he's so positive. I think that we shouldn't look at speech giving PS and Pimp talking PS as two different personas that he wears like a costume.
By code switching I mean that we are a different things to different people we encounter. It might be hard for a non-minority to understand how a minority must code switch in order to survive or gain acceptance into different social circles. The motivational speech was in front of a middle aged white crowd, so I can't see where a "fuk those ho's" type of banter would be understood or even needed.
In essence, a person can be both a pimp and a positive thinker.
Blackdragon5095
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SELF-MASTERY said:
Dreamhenry lol that guy is 1 big loser. Man I get a great laugh from him. :crackup:
spider_007
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I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."Francisco d'Anconia said:
why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
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I agree that he isn't using two different personalities.spider_007 said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.