"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No one deserved to be banned more than Player Supreme
The mods were right on that one.
He use to attack everything I said.

BTW who are all the people on this site now?
In fact, who is helter skelter?

I hardly recognize anyone here.

Getting banned is not such a big deal.
The average life span of a poster on SoSuave is about the same as the shelf life of yogurt.

At some point, you realize what you want/need in life is not found on this board.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'll keeping adding positive rep to ( . )( . ) .

Let's fight then! :D
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833

Or you could just neg rep me again? Get the usual band of crabs to join in with you maybe.
-fraudulant? hardly!!, Somehow, with your views, i don't think you are getting laid eather, so we are on the same bout, just on the different ends.
-"band of crabs" - not my style. You'll dig your own hole, you don't need me for that.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.
Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957

This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957

This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
Loosen up, dude. The guy who posted that is 17, he was at a party. People (especially 17-year olds) get drunk at parties. That isn't exactly rocket science. Where do you expect young people to go meet girls? The library?
 

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spider_007 said:
dreamhenry, and onther guy made it up on Players padcast. :crackup:
I thought that shyt was funny too...

"should I be drunk and high all the time."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.

Duality:

You can be both. When I was interested in working in Law Enforcement the question of legalizing drugs was often brought up. My view on the subject was antithetical to that of all of the chiefs that I met, and many questioned if I could enforce laws that I didn't believe in. I'm sure that many soldiers of the holocaust had beliefs that differed from their leaders, but they enforced laws that they didn’t agree with in order to survive.

Code Switching:

Think of about slave abolitionists that had to hide their anti-slavery beliefs or any other group of people that have to serve to masters.


I don't have a problem believing that someone could synthesize (pimp+playa+motivational speaker) and end up as a well balanced person.

He even has a podcast where he responds to a guy asking how he [PS] could be such a playa, because he's so positive. I think that we shouldn't look at speech giving PS and Pimp talking PS as two different personas that he wears like a costume.

By code switching I mean that we are a different things to different people we encounter. It might be hard for a non-minority to understand how a minority must code switch in order to survive or gain acceptance into different social circles. The motivational speech was in front of a middle aged white crowd, so I can't see where a "fuk those ho's" type of banter would be understood or even needed.

In essence, a person can be both a pimp and a positive thinker.
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
I thought that shyt was funny too...

"should I be drunk and high all the time."

Dreamhenry lol that guy is 1 big loser. Man I get a great laugh from him. :crackup:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."

why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
 

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spider_007 said:
I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."

why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
I agree that he isn't using two different personalities.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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