Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.SELF-MASTERY said:explain?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.SELF-MASTERY said:explain?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
They should be....errr nevermind take a look at this place lately, THEY ARE.Vincent said:They won't be missed.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833spider_007 said:Tit-chump, when is your turn
-fraudulant? hardly!!, Somehow, with your views, i don't think you are getting laid eather, so we are on the same bout, just on the different ends.( . )( . ) said:Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833
Or you could just neg rep me again? Get the usual band of crabs to join in with you maybe.
Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?Francisco d'Anconia said:Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Loosen up, dude. The guy who posted that is 17, he was at a party. People (especially 17-year olds) get drunk at parties. That isn't exactly rocket science. Where do you expect young people to go meet girls? The library?ThunderMaverick said:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957
This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
I thought that shyt was funny too...spider_007 said:dreamhenry, and onther guy made it up on Players padcast. :crackup:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.SELF-MASTERY said:Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?
Francisco d'Anconia said:But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
SELF-MASTERY said:I thought that shyt was funny too...
"should I be drunk and high all the time."
I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."Francisco d'Anconia said:But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
I agree that he isn't using two different personalities.spider_007 said:I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."
why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.