"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No one deserved to be banned more than Player Supreme
The mods were right on that one.
He use to attack everything I said.

BTW who are all the people on this site now?
In fact, who is helter skelter?

I hardly recognize anyone here.

Getting banned is not such a big deal.
The average life span of a poster on SoSuave is about the same as the shelf life of yogurt.

At some point, you realize what you want/need in life is not found on this board.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'll keeping adding positive rep to ( . )( . ) .

Let's fight then! :D
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833

Or you could just neg rep me again? Get the usual band of crabs to join in with you maybe.
-fraudulant? hardly!!, Somehow, with your views, i don't think you are getting laid eather, so we are on the same bout, just on the different ends.
-"band of crabs" - not my style. You'll dig your own hole, you don't need me for that.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.
Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957

This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957

This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
Loosen up, dude. The guy who posted that is 17, he was at a party. People (especially 17-year olds) get drunk at parties. That isn't exactly rocket science. Where do you expect young people to go meet girls? The library?
 

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dreamhenry, and onther guy made it up on Players padcast. :crackup:
I thought that shyt was funny too...

"should I be drunk and high all the time."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SELF-MASTERY said:
Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.

Duality:

You can be both. When I was interested in working in Law Enforcement the question of legalizing drugs was often brought up. My view on the subject was antithetical to that of all of the chiefs that I met, and many questioned if I could enforce laws that I didn't believe in. I'm sure that many soldiers of the holocaust had beliefs that differed from their leaders, but they enforced laws that they didn’t agree with in order to survive.

Code Switching:

Think of about slave abolitionists that had to hide their anti-slavery beliefs or any other group of people that have to serve to masters.


I don't have a problem believing that someone could synthesize (pimp+playa+motivational speaker) and end up as a well balanced person.

He even has a podcast where he responds to a guy asking how he [PS] could be such a playa, because he's so positive. I think that we shouldn't look at speech giving PS and Pimp talking PS as two different personas that he wears like a costume.

By code switching I mean that we are a different things to different people we encounter. It might be hard for a non-minority to understand how a minority must code switch in order to survive or gain acceptance into different social circles. The motivational speech was in front of a middle aged white crowd, so I can't see where a "fuk those ho's" type of banter would be understood or even needed.

In essence, a person can be both a pimp and a positive thinker.
 

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I thought that shyt was funny too...

"should I be drunk and high all the time."

Dreamhenry lol that guy is 1 big loser. Man I get a great laugh from him. :crackup:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."

why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
 

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spider_007 said:
I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."

why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
I agree that he isn't using two different personalities.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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