Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.SELF-MASTERY said:explain?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.SELF-MASTERY said:explain?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
They should be....errr nevermind take a look at this place lately, THEY ARE.Vincent said:They won't be missed.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833spider_007 said:Tit-chump, when is your turn
-fraudulant? hardly!!, Somehow, with your views, i don't think you are getting laid eather, so we are on the same bout, just on the different ends.( . )( . ) said:Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833
Or you could just neg rep me again? Get the usual band of crabs to join in with you maybe.
Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?Francisco d'Anconia said:Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Loosen up, dude. The guy who posted that is 17, he was at a party. People (especially 17-year olds) get drunk at parties. That isn't exactly rocket science. Where do you expect young people to go meet girls? The library?ThunderMaverick said:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957
This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
I thought that shyt was funny too...spider_007 said:dreamhenry, and onther guy made it up on Players padcast. :crackup:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.SELF-MASTERY said:Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?
Francisco d'Anconia said:But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
SELF-MASTERY said:I thought that shyt was funny too...
"should I be drunk and high all the time."
I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."Francisco d'Anconia said:But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.
I agree that he isn't using two different personalities.spider_007 said:I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."
why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.