Francisco d'Anconia
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Whether the persona he displayed in the forum was real or that which he showed in his video.SELF-MASTERY said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PuertoRican_Lover
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Helter Skelter
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No one deserved to be banned more than Player Supreme
The mods were right on that one.
He use to attack everything I said.
BTW who are all the people on this site now?
In fact, who is helter skelter?
I hardly recognize anyone here.
Getting banned is not such a big deal.
The average life span of a poster on SoSuave is about the same as the shelf life of yogurt.
At some point, you realize what you want/need in life is not found on this board.
The mods were right on that one.
He use to attack everything I said.
BTW who are all the people on this site now?
In fact, who is helter skelter?
I hardly recognize anyone here.
Getting banned is not such a big deal.
The average life span of a poster on SoSuave is about the same as the shelf life of yogurt.
At some point, you realize what you want/need in life is not found on this board.
Silverback82
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he seemed bitter and angry with women
ThunderMaverick
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No, he was bitter and angry with feminist and hors. Not women.
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They should be....errr nevermind take a look at this place lately, THEY ARE.Vincent said:
Surprisingly Desdinova and Rollo Tomassi were a good choice for a change.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
spider_007
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Tit-chump, when is your turn
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Soon no doubt my fraudulant friend, surely theres enough of you emasculated AFC's on here now to make some kind of protest? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101833spider_007 said:
Or you could just neg rep me again? Get the usual band of crabs to join in with you maybe.
spider_007
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-fraudulant? hardly!!, Somehow, with your views, i don't think you are getting laid eather, so we are on the same bout, just on the different ends.( . )( . ) said:
-"band of crabs" - not my style. You'll dig your own hole, you don't need me for that.
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Why can't both personas be the true player_supreme??? Do you have a grasp of code switching and duality?Francisco d'Anconia said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ThunderMaverick
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double post...-_-
ThunderMaverick
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103957
This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
This is the norm on these forums now? I just looked at this one and said to myself "there are about 15 more post like this on the front page of the discussion forum". How is shit like this helping you become a man? How can anyone learn to be responsible, respectable and admirable from "Sarging" drunk girls? It this board swinging to far the opposite way of where we want to be? Are we experiencing a backlash?
American_Psycho
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Loosen up, dude. The guy who posted that is 17, he was at a party. People (especially 17-year olds) get drunk at parties. That isn't exactly rocket science. Where do you expect young people to go meet girls? The library?ThunderMaverick said:
spider_007
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dreamhenry, and onther guy made it up on Players padcast. :crackup:
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I thought that shyt was funny too...spider_007 said:
"should I be drunk and high all the time."
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
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But don't you understand that if you have to switch you can't be both simultaneously. C'mon, use your head.SELF-MASTERY said:
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Duality:
You can be both. When I was interested in working in Law Enforcement the question of legalizing drugs was often brought up. My view on the subject was antithetical to that of all of the chiefs that I met, and many questioned if I could enforce laws that I didn't believe in. I'm sure that many soldiers of the holocaust had beliefs that differed from their leaders, but they enforced laws that they didn’t agree with in order to survive.
Code Switching:
Think of about slave abolitionists that had to hide their anti-slavery beliefs or any other group of people that have to serve to masters.
I don't have a problem believing that someone could synthesize (pimp+playa+motivational speaker) and end up as a well balanced person.
He even has a podcast where he responds to a guy asking how he [PS] could be such a playa, because he's so positive. I think that we shouldn't look at speech giving PS and Pimp talking PS as two different personas that he wears like a costume.
By code switching I mean that we are a different things to different people we encounter. It might be hard for a non-minority to understand how a minority must code switch in order to survive or gain acceptance into different social circles. The motivational speech was in front of a middle aged white crowd, so I can't see where a "fuk those ho's" type of banter would be understood or even needed.
In essence, a person can be both a pimp and a positive thinker.
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SELF-MASTERY said:
Dreamhenry lol that guy is 1 big loser. Man I get a great laugh from him. :crackup:
spider_007
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I don't get what you guys are talking about, I DON'T SEE TWO DIFFERENT PERSONALITYS. The only time he really is using slang and cursing, is when he is trying to get a point accross. If you listen to his podcasts, you'll see that he does have some speach trouble, and the way he gets around it is by using his "public speaking training...."Francisco d'Anconia said:
why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
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I agree that he isn't using two different personalities.spider_007 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.