Bolt_nayak
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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Premature ejaculations issue
- Thread starter Bolt_nayak
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pierce Manhammer
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Rub one out before seeing a chick, several here have espoused it, it makes you less needy and calmer.
Chances are if you suffer from PE, you’re a one and done guy as well, which could be an issue.
A simple search for “premature ejaculation” will net you thousands of websites with potential solutions, no one here has pixie dust you can sprinkle on your todger.
Try everything, find your solution, but if you’re not a one and done guy, the suggestion I made might help. If it doesn’t it’s a psychological issue.
Scaramouche
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Hi Bolt,
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
EyeBRollin
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You’re age is 19?
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
MatureDJ
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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. 
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer.
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer. "Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bolt_nayak
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Really? I was taking so much stress.I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds.
Learning Curve
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Masturbate at-least 4-5 hours before s3x.
Also, foreplay is important to expand s3x.
Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
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I was going to make fun of him but I forgot being that young, that absolutely can happen. The excitement gets to him.
MatureDJ
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I think it's better for the first to go rather quickly, but then reload for a longer encore. That said, at least let that first be inside of her.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.