"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Premature ejaculations issue

Bolt_nayak

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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
Rub one out before seeing a chick, several here have espoused it, it makes you less needy and calmer.

Chances are if you suffer from PE, you’re a one and done guy as well, which could be an issue.

A simple search for “premature ejaculation” will net you thousands of websites with potential solutions, no one here has pixie dust you can sprinkle on your todger.

Try everything, find your solution, but if you’re not a one and done guy, the suggestion I made might help. If it doesn’t it’s a psychological issue.
 

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Hi Bolt,
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
 

MatureDJ

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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. :mad: The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round :rolleyes:, but the next round lasts much longer. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bolt_nayak

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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. :mad: The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round :rolleyes:, but the next round lasts much longer. :)
Really? I was taking so much stress.
 

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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
 

HaleyBaron

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I was going to make fun of him but I forgot being that young, that absolutely can happen. The excitement gets to him.
 

MatureDJ

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Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
I think it's better for the first to go rather quickly, but then reload for a longer encore. That said, at least let that first be inside of her. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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